The MMF threesome, otherwise known as the ‘devil’s threeway’ can be a world of fun, but you need to know how to approach it in the right way.
We all agree a threesome can be exciting and the MMF threesome is a particular treat for all those involved. For one, the girl is pleasured with a serving of four caressing hands and an extra sausage. While the two guys get themselves a good taste of real-life, interactive porn – one they both watch and participate in.
When it’s time to get down to business, there will always be the problem of “who and what goes where.” While we have a wealth of sexual positions for couples, pulling off a smooth threesome sex position where all parties are comfortable can be a bit tricky and cannot be simplified to a game of “Human Sex Tetris” where you just fit people into nooks.
So if you’re ready to have an MMF threesome or have fantasized about one, here’s everything you need to know, and the best MMF positions you can use as well! [Read: 21 must-know ways to ask someone for a threesome and join you in bed]
Points to know about the devil’s threeway
The devil’s threeway or the MMF threesome involves two males and one female. From this we deduce two points. First, that’s one lucky girl. Second, two guys make it complicated. Here’s why:
1. Threesomes in general require multi-tasking skills
The first rule of any threesome is everybody should be happy in the end. Meaning everybody should have an equal share of sexual pleasure from the threesome. And, no one should be left behind to do all the work, or worse, ignored.
All participating partners should be capable of making hands and orifices work at the same time, in a manner of speaking. [Read: Threesome tips – 20 things to know before entering one]
2. The MMF threesome appeals to ‘sexually explorative’ males
If you are a guy who takes issue with physical contact with another naked male, then a Devil’s threeway may not be for you.
Even if you are two hot-blooded straight males who swore to ignore each other during the threesome, you’ll still end up brushing on each other’s skin at some point. While it isn’t a requirement, MMF threesomes prefer bi-curious males to make it more enjoyable.
3. There is a requirement for female ‘overtime’ work
Initially, the devil’s threeway is thought to be a win-win situation for ladies who just lie down and let the men do all the work. Well, you thought wrong.
After the boys have done their chores, they expect to be rewarded handsomely. As you would expect, a devil’s threeway would require the lone female to do more work, and she must expect to have both her hands and “other” parts full. [Read: MFF threesome: 20 dos and don’ts you shouldn’t ignore]
The most important rules and tips for MMF threesome pleasure
The MMF threesome may be inviting, but in reality, it also requires a lot of work and preparation. It also comes with a risk. There are a lot of ways for a devil’s threeway to go wrong. Not only ruining a night of supposedly hot sex but also the relationship, if one is involved.
That’s why it is best to keep these set of rules and tips in mind prior to an MMF threesome:
1. Always keep communication open
It’s a fact that threesomes are easy until you find yourself in the exact moment. There will be the question of who does what and what goes where. No matter how experienced you are, there’s a part where you just play it by ear.
Sometimes, your threesome partners may do things that surprise, shock, and put you in an uncomfortable position. When these types of situations arise, don’t be afraid to speak up about them. Communicate everything – if it feels good, uncomfortable, or if you want to do something “creative.” [Read: How to have great sex with your lover]
2. Make sure everybody gets due attention
The most common risk encountered during MMF is when someone gets left behind during the action. Quite understandable given the odd number.
However, the trio must always consider that all feel good and involved during the devil’s threeway.
3. Protection
A must-have, especially if you’re all strangers with no idea of each other’s previous sexual activities. It is wise to bring proper protection. [Read: The dangers of unprotected that most people don’t even think about]
4. Communicate expectations and rules
It’s important to talk about the rules and expectations prior to the threesome. Simply, there will be members of the MMF threesome who want expectations and limits.
To make the threesome work, it should be communicated to all parties so that they know when to step on the brakes in case things stray from the comfortable zone during the moment.
Rules and boundaries also help a lot in case the threesome involves a couple in a relationship. [Read: Tinder threesome – How to write a couples bio and meet the perfect third]
5. Choose your partners wisely
Take a lot of time in choosing your partners. Most often, people choose partners based on their level of attractiveness or openness to a MMF threesome. While all are fine criteria to determine partners, there are other points to consider in choosing your other partners.
1. For couples: Don’t pick someone to play a “third wheel”
The usual MMF set-up is a couple looking for a third male partner to complete the trio. However, consider that the guy is a human being too.
As mentioned, singles looking for couples to play with also want to feel loved and involved. Don’t treat the third guy like a third wheel just in there to work for your fantasies. Make him feel part of the threesome, not just room meat. [Read: Third wheel – 32 perks, annoyances & the guide to survive being one]
2. For couples who are after a third wheel, try swinger clubs
If you’re a couple really after a third wheel eager to play the part, you can find eager ones guilt-free at swinger clubs and similar meet-ups.
Not only do they flock to those events making your life easier, but you’ll also be sure to find someone already experienced to fulfill your MMF threesome fantasies. [Read: How to make the swinging style work for you]
3. For single first-timers – pick others who are equally single and inexperienced
It will be very exciting if everyone’s on an even playing field. If all three are single and inexperienced in trying their first threesome, there will be much groping around in a manner of speaking.
4. For single females – take caution when finding partners
Especially two guys who know each other. Let’s play the devil’s advocate and say that the setup is not always safe and has a margin of possibility for sexual assault.
Of course, the possibility is rare, but it’s still there and needs to be safeguarded against. [Read: How to have safe sex in every single way it is possible to]
6. Threesome with a friend?
While some would not agree to invite a close friend into a devil’s threeway because it’s embarrassing to ask, you might be in for a treat. They could be more into it than you would think.
Even if they don’t admit it, friends *especially guy friends* have considered a threesome with female friends at one point. All it takes is a little bit of coaxing. [Read: What do guys think of all their female friends? 17 honest secrets revealed]
7. Know the MMF positions
Get acquainted with sex positions suited for MMF threesomes. Of course, the other problem of devil’s threeways is who goes where. Sexual positions are a bit limited compared to couples-only sex.
Be familiar with the varieties, if not all of them, so that you have a backup plan in case your third partner is not physically suited to the one you have in mind. [Read: The 24 best threesome positions for all combos of men and women]
8. Use toys
Toys are a welcome addition to the threesome. First, it is a quick remedy to the “third wheel” problem. If one fails to find a hole to park into at some point, they have toys to play with while the other two bring him into the fold.
Toys also make the devil’s threeway interesting since there will be a lot of hands to be made busy.
9. Don’t get too drunk
If you’ve read first-time threesome stories online, most of them happened because of alcohol. But there’s a rule to letting alcohol join your threesome: drink until you’re all agreeable to a threesome, but not until you’re sloppy. [Confession: My accidental, first-time threesome story]
10. For guys: keep your homophobia in check
It’s an MMF, man. Two guys. When the action starts, you’ll get to a part where you brush thighs and other parts together. If you interrupt the act every time to shuffle away from the other guy, maybe an MMF threesome is not for you.
MMF threesomes do not really require bi-curious men, but those who aren’t squeamish in rubbing parts with the other male partner. [Read: The soft swap – How to ease your partner into testing the waters]
11. Check in a lot
Try to check in with your threesome buddies after the act. Just to make sure that everyone is okay and cared for during the act. A short call to check-in is well-appreciated by your threesome partners.
12. You can take a break or bail on it
It’s okay for you to take a break or bailout during the middle of the threesome. If things don’t go according to your expectations or if it’s too much for you, it’s perfectly fine to bail out of the threesome.
Ask to take a break and then voice your concern. They will not and should not hold it against you. [Read: Meaning of safe words and how to use them when you’re playing rough]
MMF threesome sex positions
Now that you know all the rules and expectations you should follow, you need to know some of the MMF threesome sex positions you can use. [Read: 21 must-know ways to ask someone for a threesome and join you in bed]
1. Mutual masturbation
For this position, just get into any positions that feel comfortable to you. You can do it on the bed, the couch, or in the shower. Touch yourselves and each other.
As things get steamy, then move on to other positions. Mutual masturbation not only allows everyone to feel great all together, but it’s also a great way to show others how you like to be touched.
2. BJ switch
Have the male partners stand in front of the female, and then kneel down and switch off performing a blowjob on each of them.
While she’s giving the blowjob to one, she can reach over and use her hand on the other one. This is a great position if the woman loves giving oral. It also allows her to be the center of attention. [Read: How to give good head – The biggest guide and blowjob secret tips]
3. Doggy blowjob
For this position, you start by having sex doggy style with one person and have the other one lie on their back in front of the woman. The woman gets between their legs, get down to her elbows, and performs oral sex at the same time.
4. The spit roast
If you’re a guy doing your first devil’s threeway, and you’d very much rather be far away from the other guy as much as possible, then the spit roast is the go-to position for you. As the name implies, this position looks like your fourth of July hog roast.
In this position, the girl goes on all fours while one guy takes her from behind and the other guy positions himself in front of the girl to receive oral. [Read: How to please a man with your mouth]
5. Reverse high five
This is a different version of the high five. For this one, have the woman lie on her back with her legs apart. Then, the men should get into a doggy-style position. The person in front gives her oral sex.
If you want to have anal sex, then this is a good position to try. It’s also good if you enjoy oral more than penetration.
6. Circle
This sex position requires bisexual or bi-curious male participants.
For the circle, all three of you should perform oral sex on each other while lying on your sides. Try to put your bodies in a circle by resting your head on each other’s inner thigh. When you do this position, you can share the experience of both giving and receiving. [Read: Unicorn dating – How to find a sexual third partner and do it right]
It’s also a good thing to do if you need to take a break from more complicated or tiring positions.
7. Face f*ck
The woman should lie on her back with her knees bent and her head resting on a pillow. One of the men can go down on her while the other one straddles her chest so she can give him a blowjob.
This one keeps the three of you close together and gives everyone a good view if they want it. [Read: 8 sexy techniques to give a girl oral sex and make her squirm in bliss]
8. Double stuff
This position involves double penetration. To get yourselves into the right position, one person should lie on their back at the end of a bed. Their legs should also be hanging over the edge.
Then, the woman should climb on top of them and ride them cowgirl style. The third person stands or kneels behind her to penetrate as well. You might need to adjust to get the angles right, but it’s something that provides a lot of stimulation.
9. Twisty threeway
The woman should lie on the bed and have her legs hanging off the edge. One man will stand between her legs and enter her while the other man straddles you, facing the standing man, to play with the woman’s clit. For this position, the woman gets all of the attention. [Read: How to have a three-way – 13 rules to make a threesome work]
10. 69 with anal bonus
In this position, one guy and the girl adopts the 69 position with the girl on top. Guy number two then positions himself behind the girl and gives her anal sex.
This one is overall hard, but extra hard for the guy below who is at risk of washing his face with the combined sex juice coming from above.
11. Female sandwich
Another double penetration position where all three lie on their sides on the bed. One guy spoons the girl from behind and gives her anal sex while the other guy faces her and penetrates her in the vagina. The relaxed position allows the two guys’ free hands to pleasure the girl in other ways. [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – A beginner’s fantasy guidebook]
12. The right angle
One guy lies on his back as the girl has vaginal or anal sex with him in reverse cowgirl fashion. The other guy stands in front of the girl to receive oral sex from her.
13. Double intruder
One guy lies on his back and the girl has anal sex with him using a reverse cowgirl position, while she receives guy number two who penetrates her in a missionary position. To make this work, the girl leans back and supports her weight with her arms planted near the first guy’s sides.
This one is very difficult and there is a risk of penis injury for the guy lying on his back if the girl loses her balance. [Confession: My first threesome – An accidental threesome experience]
14. The tower
In this very kinky position, the guy carries the girl in standing position as he penetrates her vaginally while guy number two closes in from behind and penetrates her anally. Both guys can take turns carrying the girl’s weight as they bob her up and down into their penises. [Read: How to be good at sex: 17 moves to become the hottest lay]
15. The flat line
One guy lies on his back while the girl sits down on his face to receive oral from him while she blows guy number two who is also lying down. [Read: The threesome invite: How to make the amazing happen]
Giving the MMF threesome a try
Having a threesome of any kind requires a lot of communication, patience, and coordination. And if this is your first time, keep in mind that sometimes it doesn’t turn out the way you expect it to.
It might sound like a great idea, but maybe you or your partners might not enjoy it as much as you thought.
On the other hand, you all might have the time of your lives. But you have to be prepared, open-minded, and enjoy the moment the best way you can.
[Read: Throuple relationship – 27 rules and secrets to a happy romantic trio]
Threesomes, especially the MMF threesome, can be fun when imagining it but a bit complicated to do in real life. Yet, it is a fantasy worth working through!
