Have you ever gotten your sexual rhythm going with a little help from your iPod? We’re summing up the best music to make love to, and why.
Have you ever had sex with a little added background noise? I don’t mean the latest Survivor episode playing in the background or YouTube videos running in the corner. No, I mean have you ever had truly fantastic sex while blaring them most moving, recklessly energizing song you’ve ever heard in the background?
If you answered yes, then you already know the magic of music and sex, and if you answered no, then you’re in for a treat.
If it sounds a little “teenage” to you, then you may be wondering: why make music a part of your love-making?
Why you should put some tunes on in the bedroom
Listening to music while you make love can be a transient experience, especially for those who are easily moved by songs and melodies. Having a little background noise can be hot, as well as downright convenient in some cases. So why make love with music on?
#1 It’s distracting for the guy. Guys tend to get a little too… excited, during intercourse, and unless your man can get his hard-on back at the snap of your perfectly polished fingers, then he’s likely going to want a little distraction to keep the magic going.
In their loving efforts to make sure their sexy lover is having fun and getting off, some men try to distract themselves with other things while getting it on, such as work statistics, driving routes, or pondering over what his breakfast will be the next morning. Sweet as it is, some men can get so distracted in their thoughts that they forget to stay hard. In this case, music provides that perfect balance of white noise that’ll keep him distracted while keeping you moaning.
#2 It gets your rhythm going. Music is the ultimate lover’s rhythm-maker. It’s true of dance and it’s true of sex. Whether you play your songs on repeat, make a playlist or choose an appropriate album, having music playing in the background is a great way to find a rhythm with your mate. During a fast song, you may both find your bodies naturally moving to its beat, making for perfectly in-unison sexual swagger.
#3 It is great if you have roommates. This option is also great if you don’t live alone. Those who are still living with their parents, cousins, or roommates will do their house-partners a great show of respect by opting to play music before getting their groove on. Not only will it shield your roommates from your awkward sex noises, but also when done consistently, it will let your mates know you’ve signaled it’s time for nookie – giving them the perfect opportunity to leave the house, if they wish.
#4 It makes it easier for women to O. Girls I know swear by this. Have you ever been having sex with a guy where it all feels good and he’s doing everything right, but you just know you’re not going to orgasm? Women who have trouble orgasming find it easier to achieve their peak when music is on in the background, because it helps them relax. Not only will they not be so focused on having an orgasm *which can distract a girl right out of one!* but they also become less preoccupied with surface stuff: what noises they’re making, if they look fat, if anyone can hear them.
Bedroom music can transcend genders
So, before we begin unveiling our musical artists worthy of being our love-making white noise, let’s get this out in the open: It doesn’t matter what gender you listen to, you’re doing this for fun! I once had a boyfriend who was completely disgusted at the thought of listening to another guy while we were even kissing. Just remember, kissing your boyfriend while listening to a girl sing in the background doesn’t make you a lesbian, and the same goes for him.
What songs should you put on when you’re about to get it on?
We’ve compiled a great list of old and new age songs, perfect for any sexy playlist. Avoid classics such as Marvin Gaye’s “Let’s Let It On” or something ridiculous like “I Want Your Sex” by George Michael. If your song is more likely to make you laugh than turn you on, then it’s time to skip to the next playlist!
#1 Anything old. Maybe not so much “California Girls” old, or the Carter Family’s country songs, but anything that makes you think: classic, vintage, fabulous. You could even make it a themed night: your man with a top hat on *and nothing else* and you with your best pin curls as his sexy little 1920s flapper girl. The old music will make it feel like you’re in an old classic romance film, truly an unforgettable session. Song suggestions:
Nat King Cole – When I Fall in Love
Ray Charles – You Don’t Know Me
Andy Williams – Moon River
Billie Holiday – The Very Thought of You
The Platters – Smoke Gets in your Eyes
#2 Jazz. Jazz is sexy with pure emotion that can’t be formalized, something you can have a glass of wine with, and certainly something you can make love to. Often referred to as “wallpaper music,” it can be relaxing and soothing or upbeat, meaning it’s one of those fantastic genres you can either get wild with, or make sweet, sweet love to.
#3 Rock music to get your bed rocking. Sometimes, you need a little power behind your speakers to put the power into your… well, you know. Here’s some suggestions for mood-making rock music:
Kings of Leon – Closer
Anything by Led Zeppelin
Lukas Rossi – Leave the Lights On
ACDC – Little Lover
Imagine Dragons – Round and Round
Aerosmith – Cryin’
Deftones – Cherry Waves
#4 Upbeat ipster techno and dubstep. Dubstep and hipster dance music are super sexy alternatives to boring club music. Dubstep takes you away to another world. The melodies are mixed, messy, and hardly cohesive, making it the perfect background noise to go wild to. Some easy recommendations are:
Goldfrapp – Ooh La La
Elvis Presley – A Little Less Conversation [Remix]
Flight Facilities – Crave You [Dubstep version]
Ashtar Command – Into Dust
Ellie Goulding – Lights [Dubstep version]
Neon Indian – Polish girl
The Naked and Famous – The Sun
BT Feat M. Doughty – Never Gonna Come Back Down
#5 Bittersweet indie music. Indie music provides a homemade, raw-sounding melody that’s sure to get you in the mood. Plus, most of these people aren’t well known, so you won’t be wondering about their latest celeb scandal while you’re trying to get your freak on! Song choices are:
Indians – Magic Kids
Jack White – Love Is Blindness
Tom Odell – I Know
Sufjan Stevens – Futile Devices
Stone Darling – All I Wanna Do
Lana Del Rey – Young and Beautiful
#6 Songs for romantic, slow sex. Sometimes choosing by genre just doesn’t cut it. Sometimes, you just want something that’s going to put you in the mood for some slow, sensual lovin’. We’ve got you covered with these picks:
Van Morrison – Crazy Love
Paolo Nutini – Last Request
Gavin DeGraw – We Belong Together
Sleeping at Last – Turning Page
Damien Rice – Delicate
Bon Iver – Holocene
Norah Jones – Come Away with Me
#7 Sexy Pop Songs
These songs are popular for a reason, so whether you’re looking for something catchy, slow or bouncy these songs have the rhythm to put the motion in your sexy ocean:
Norah Jones – Turn Me On
James Morrison – You Give Me Something
Electric Light Orchestra – Strange Magic
Alex Clare – Too Close
Adam Cohen – Tell Me Everything
[Read: 10 more songs to put on your sensual seduction playlist]
Whether you choose a rock’n’roll tune to spice up your tryst or a romantic old school tune, you can’t deny that your mood gets enhanced by the music you play. You may be surprised at just how much better your sensual experience will get when you put these tunes on!
