There are blowjobs and then there are blowjobs. The guys that get blowjobs, never forget it. So, here’s how to deep throat like a pro.
Most of you know how to give a normal blowjob, but if you really want to have his mind blown – welcome to the world of deep throating. Deep throating is a somewhat rare skill amongst women. It’s not that a majority cannot deep throat, the issue is that they don’t know how to deep throat. But, if you learn the proper technique, it’ll feel like ecstasy him.
How to deep throat like a pro – 11 little moves to take you deep
It took me a while to get the hang of deep throating. And after giving it a try, I get why so many women are scared to try it out. The biggest problem of deep throating is the fear of gagging and vomiting. I mean, you can’t blame them, who would want to throw up on someone’s dick? But, let me tell you if that does happen, just play it off.
Here are some tips that’ll help you learn how to deep throat.
#1 Do it if you want to. If you’re not comfortable with deep throating, then don’t do it. You’re not going to enjoy it, and if you don’t enjoy it, then there’s no point in trying. If you want to try but you’re scared, then practice alone with a dildo. [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]
#2 What is your gag reflex? You gag reflex is a soft palette in the back of your throat which is usually activated when something touches your tonsils, roof of your mouth or the back of your throat. It then contracts which causes that gag sensation.
#3 Control the gag reflex. This biggest issue with deep throating is the gag reflex. So many women are terrified of gagging and vomiting on their partner’s penis. I completely understand the fear. So, you’ll just need to learn how to control it.
You’ll need to desensitize it by simply adapting it to the feeling of something touching your throat. You can take you fingers, dildo, or toothbrush and slowly go towards the back of your throat. When you feel the gagging sensation, suppress it, and hold it there for a couple seconds. [Read: 9 hot blowjob secrets to drive him wild with desire]
#4 Tell him not to touch you. When you’re starting out, you’ll need to develop your own comfort level and technique. So, it’s best if your partner isn’t pushing your head down or grabbing your hair. I personally never liked that anyways, but while you’re deep throating, you need to be in control. You can tie his hands up or simply hold them.
#5 Find a position that works for you. There will be some positions that you’ll enjoy giving a blowjob in compared to others. This is usually based on personal preference, however, there are some popular deep throating positions you should know about.
You’ll want to go into a position that aligns your mouth and throat, creating less pressure on the sides of your throat. One position is you lying on your back with your head hanging off of the bed. He’ll be standing up while he enters you – this is called the Lie Back Blowjob position.
The other, Jack Hammer, is you squatting and rolling your head back. He’ll be standing behind you as you suck him off. [Read: 11 secrets to give good head and blow his mind every time]
#6 Don’t forget to breathe. You’re probably thinking that this is a no-brainer, but it’s more complex than it looks. When you have a penis stuffed all the way into your throat, breathing doesn’t become naturally. So, you’ll want to learn to breathe through your nose.
If you’re having problems breathing through your nose, then every 10 seconds, pull his penis out and take a breath. You can use your hands while you take a break as well.
#7 Practice on a dildo. Sure, you can practice on an actual penis, and trust me, no one will object to that. However, if you’re nervous about it, you can always practice on a banana, cucumber, or dildo. Whichever one you have casually lying around. That way, you don’t have to think about anyone else, it’s just you and the fake dick. [Read: 14 blowjob techniques that all women have mastered already]
#8 If you don’t use it, you lose it. Yeah, I know what you’re thinking. But this isn’t some muscle memory that you can just quit doing and come back to it ten years later. You’re going to have to maintain it if you want to be able to do it whenever.
#9 Add in some other techniques. Once you know how to deep throat, you can incorporate other techniques to it. You can lick his balls, hum on his penis, use your hands to grab his ass and thighs or insert a finger into his anus. But don’t rush to do this, the most important thing is to learn how to deep throat. Then, you can add this into your routine. [Read: The ultimate blowjob guide for women who hate giving head]
#10 Finish down your throat. There are three ways to finish off a blowjob, you can swallow, spit or have them ejaculate on you. However, when you’re deep throating, the ideal is to let them ejaculate in your throat. If you don’t like the taste of semen, don’t worry, you won’t actually taste anything since it won’t enter your mouth. Plus, this will feel amazing for your man.
#11 It’s going to be wet. This is unavoidable. While you’re deep throating, you’re going to notice that you’re producing a lot of saliva. But, this isn’t something you should worry about. In fact, it’s completely normal. It’ll help lubricate your throat and mouth, allowing his penis to slide in effortlessly.
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Now you know how to deep throat, so, all you need to do is get out there and practice. Sure, the first couple times may be a little awkward, but once you nail it down, your man will love it.
