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How to Find a Sugar Daddy and Hook the Rich Man of Your Dreams

Having you considered getting yourself a sugar daddy? We’ve all thought about it. But most of us simply don’t know how to find a sugar daddy.

how to find a sugar daddy

We’ve all toyed with the fantasy of figuring out how to find a sugar daddy. However, most of us haven’t gone beyond the concept of it because we’re sceptical. Now, sugar dating simply consists of two people in a relationship where they both receive benefits from it.

Usually, these relationships are casual as many sugar daddies travel and don’t have time for a serious relationship. However, a sugar baby provides them with the feeling of a relationship when they see each other. You’re probably wondering if it involves sex. For many it does, but this is something that both people discuss prior to the relationship.

How to find a sugar daddy

You probably already know all of this. And if you didn’t know, then you should probably do some more research on sugar dating. But, let’s say, you’ve done the research. Now, all you need to do is find a sugar daddy. That can’t be too hard, right?

Well, if you struggle finding one, then it’s about time you had a helping hand. It’s time you got yourself the sugar daddy of your dreams. I’m going to help you find him. It’s not that hard, ladies. [Read: How to be the best sugar baby – 16 secrets to the luxe life]

#1 Date online smartly. If you’re cruising the online dating world such as Tinder and OkCupid, it’s time you gave your profile a bit of a facelift. Let’s get practical here. If you’re looking for a sugar daddy, it’s not going to be a 20-year-old barista at Starbucks.

Let’s look beyond that. You need to change that profile setting to men over 40. Those are the guys who are financially able to support a sugar relationship, and plus, they’re on Tinder, so they’re most likely single *you may want to double check that*. [Read: How to write a dating profile that will set you apart]

#2 Go to specific sugar dating apps/websites. Now that sugar dating is no longer a taboo, underground idea, online, you’re able to go on a couple well-known sugar dating websites. These sites are specifically designed for sugar dating. The guys on these sites are looking for casual relationships and have the means to back up their “sugar daddy” claims. Of course, double check that as well. It’s online. So, you know, you need to do your due diligence. [Read: 10 handpicked alternative to try something besides Tinder]

#3 Know what you want ahead of time. Before you even start looking, I mean, of course, you can browse, but, before you contact any of these sugar daddies, know what you’re looking for. This will help you narrow down your search and get sugar daddies that have the qualities you like. Plus, you need to know where your boundaries are. What you do really want?

#4 Sex or no sex. This is a common question that comes up, but, this is also something you need to think about as well. Of course, this will change depending on the sugar daddy you’re with. You may not feel a sexual connection with your sugar daddy and that’s okay. You don’t have to sleep with him. But, you do need to express it to your sugar daddy ahead of time, so that he can either agree or dismiss your terms.

#5 Have an end goal. Don’t just go into a sugar relationship without knowing why you’re going into it. Maybe you want to cover some of your tuition, buy yourself a car, start a business, or get a down payment saved up for a house. You need to have an end goal. That way, you don’t stick in a relationship with the intention of it developing into something serious, as it most likely won’t.

#6 Ask your friends. If you have any friends who are sugar babies, they could be of great use to you when trying to find a sugar daddy. It’s also probably the safest way to find a sugar daddy, as they are someone recommended by a trusted friend. You can get your friend to set you up on a date. That date will be where you state your boundaries and needs very clearly.

#7 Hang around money. Let’s get real, if you want to know how to find a sugar daddy, you need to hang around where wealthier men are. It’s really as simple as that. Go to affluent neighborhoods, bars and clubs which are known to have rich men, cigar lounges, yacht clubs, etc. You know, places where college kids aren’t hanging around. [Read: A girl’s guide to snagging a rich boyfriend]

#8 Go with a fellow sugar baby. If you need support when looking for a sugar daddy, then go out with a sugar baby or someone who’s also interested in becoming one. That way, you feel more comfortable speaking to older men and someone else knows that you’re safe. Though, if you ever feel uncomfortable, then pull out of the situation.

#9 Be persistent. You may find a sugar daddy on your first night out or it may take you a couple tries in order for you to find the right sugar daddy. You can’t expect this to just happen overnight, even though you want it to. But, be patient, nothing happens with just the snap of a finger. It may take some time until you find the right one.

#10 Show off your qualities. The sugar baby pool is overflowing with people that like to be pampered. However, there aren’t as many sugar daddies out on the market, so, this means that the competition is fierce. So, highlight your best qualities. No, this doesn’t just mean your boobs or butt. I’m talking about your smile, your laugh, your eyes. Show people what makes you different and interesting. [Read: How to be sexy and own your own unique attractiveness]

#11 Continue dating others. Listen, he’s a sugar daddy, but he’s not your boyfriend. This is something to clearly differentiate. While you’re landing yourself a sugar daddy, you can always keep yourself on the market, looking for other people. Know where your emotional boundaries are and when you need to call it quits.

[Read: Why age gaps are the new trend in relationships]

Understanding how to find a sugar daddy isn’t as hard as you may think. All you need to do? Look in the right places to find the perfect sugar daddy for you.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and ...
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