What to Text a Guy to Make Him Want You: 25 Steamy Texts He’ll Love

You’re into this guy, and you want him to share the same feelings you have. Well, it’s time you learned what to text a guy to make him want you.

What to Text a Guy to Make Him Want You

When I was in the dating world, I remember having a crush on this particular guy. I felt like a house plant to him. It made me feel invisible. Okay, he saw me, but our interactions were strictly friendly… nothing more. I would literally go home, wondering why this guy didn’t like me and would think of ways to make him want me. If you’re in the same boat, here is what to text a guy to make him want you.

Of course, it didn’t work out for the two of us. He really wasn’t into me in that way. But, if you feel that there’s something between the two of you, then it’s not a lost cause. Here are a few tips to follow before you put thumb to phone.

A few helpful tips

It’s important to be honest with yourself. Identify if you think there are some underlying feelings. If there are, great. If there aren’t, well, then you may be putting in a lot of effort for nothing. I don’t want to tell you what to do, but I also don’t want you to waste your time on someone who isn’t into you.

[Read: How to read the signs a guy wants you to chase him]

Don’t write too much. Before anything else, don’t send him essay-long texts. You’re not writing a love novel. Keep your texts short and to the point, even if they’re sexts. You want the conversation to flow back and forth with ease, not where he has to scroll endlessly.

Know when to end the conversation. When we like someone, we always want to be connected with them. Now, this is super sweet, but if you want to make him want you, know when to end the conversation. Let the conversation end naturally, and that’ll leave him curious for the next time you speak.

Be true to yourself. Listen, at the end of the day, this guy is just a guy. There are billions of men out there. What’s important is no matter who the guy is, you stay true to yourself. If you’re putting on an act to impress him, you won’t last long. You should stay true to yourself, and if he isn’t into you, that’s okay. Don’t change for someone who isn’t interested in the real you. [Read: 15 signs he thinks about you a lot even if he’s playing it cool]

Work your way up to dirty talk. If you want to dirty talk with a guy you like, don’t jump straight into it. Before anything, decide what you want. Do you just want to hook up with this guy? If so, then working your way into dirty talk doesn’t need to be a long process.

But if you really like this guy, and are interested in a relationship, don’t jump straight into the dirty talk. Get to know each other before getting into the naughty stuff. [Read: 20 hot things to say to a guy over text and have him drooling for you]

25 things to text a guy to make him want you 

So, if you feel you want to give it a chance, here’s what to text a guy to make him want you. By knowing what to text him, you’ll have a sense of how he feels and whether or not he’s into you. And even if this is a guy you’ve already been flirting with, it’s good to have some news lines up your sleeve.

Why is dating so hard?!

#1 When I’m around you, I feel amazing. He makes you feel safe, secure, and loved.

#2 I feel I can just be myself around you, and I love that. That’s how you should be feeling!

#3 I’m currently bragging about you to my friends ;). Oh, he’ll want to know what you’re telling them. [Read: This is how a guy texts when he likes you]

#4 Sorry to hear about your day. I’ll give you a back massage to help you relax. He won’t say no to a back rub.

#5 I loved spending the day with you, it was great. Let him know you appreciate the time you spend together. [Read: 30 signs to look for when a guy likes you]

#6 All I’ve been thinking about is your mouth. He’s probably thinking of your mouth too.

#7 I can’t stop laughing at that story you told me last night. He’s a funny guy, and the good thing is he makes you laugh. 

#8 I don’t like watching scary movies, but if you’ll watch it with me, I’ll make an exception. He better get ready to cuddle you during the scary scenes. 

#9 I’m ordering pizza tonight, you in? Who can say no to pizza!

#10 I’m so lucky to have you in my life. And he’s happy to be a part of your life. 

#11 Everything about you turns me on! I can’t help it. And neither can he. [Read: Emojis you should definitely be using more often when texting]

#12 I wish you were next to me in bed right now… naked. That makes two of you.

#13 You’re making me blush, and you’re not even here. He just has that charm that can even be seen via text.

#14 Hope you’re rested, ’cause you’re going to need all your energy for tonight. Oh, he’s gonna take a nap right now.

#15 Can’t stop thinking about the other day/night. It’s been on your mind ever since.

#16 The way you kissed me goodbye, I can still feel your lips. He had the perfect pair of lips.

#17 Let’s be spontaneous this weekend… mini road trip? Go, and have some fun together.

#18 The minute you walk through the door, your clothes better come off! Someone is feeling frisky!

#19 Want to Netflix and chill tonight? You’ll bring the Netflix, he’ll bring the popcorn.

#20 I had a very naughty dream about you last night. Oh, you better tell him what it was about. [Read: 14 sexy tips to starting sexting like a pro]

#21 I don’t get why you make me so horny. He’ll know the answer to that.

#22 Honestly, I’m in a serious need of a cuddle. Cuddles are amazing, and hopefully, he loves to cuddle just as much.

#23 So… how do you feel about sex toys… You need to know!

#24 Just wanted to let you know I’m lying naked on my bed right now thinking about you. What is he going to do?

#25 You just get me. What can I say? You just click.

[Read: How to flirt with a guy over text one step at a time]

It’s normal to want to be noticed by a guy you like. But, it can also be tricky if you don’t know what to text a guy to make him want you. Hopefully, these naughty tips garner his attention.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and ...
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