There are hundreds of sex position tips and tricks for men and women, but not much have been covered when it comes to girl-on-girl action. Much rarer are lesbian-sex-inspired positions. When we talk about lesbian sex, many people wonder, “But… what exactly do they do?”
Wonder no more. We got this sorted out to come up with the ultimate, oh-my-goodness, kama sutra of lesbian sex positions that will definitely blow you away. Seriously—who needs dicks when you have this list?
17 lesbian sex positions that will blow you away
There is more to lesbian sex positions than grinding your bodies together. In fact, it can be both an art and a science. There are different approaches to pleasing your partner, and here, we break them down for you.
Tribadism
Based on the Greek word meaning “rubbing bodies together,” tribad is all about full-body contact involving embraces, rubbing, and grinding together. It creates friction and stimulation, which heightens both your senses and brings you to a deeper level of intimacy. [Read: 10 reasons why lesbian porn is way, way hotter than straight porn]
#1 Apples and pairs. In this position, you lie down together in a 69 position, kissing each other’s breasts. You can rub your breasts against each other and mimic each other’s actions. This is a perfect technique to intensify your passions before you move on to other positions.
#2 Scissoring. A famous lesbian position, this is done by alternating your legs against each other while the two of you are lying in bed. This opens up both your vulvas to each other’s so that your clitorises are exposed and can be easily stimulated by your partner.
#3 Bedspread. You *or your partner* sits on the edge of the bed while you get into the scissor position, exposing your crotches to each other. Bump your groins together to stimulate each other, while you and your partner become wet and your clitorises get engorged.
#4 Backside venus. Best done with blindfolds so you can both concentrate on the tactile aspect of the act, this position requires that you position your bum onto your partner’s crotch. She opens up your butt cheeks to expose your anus, and she rubs her clitoris on your anus, maintaining full contact and intense friction. [Read: Dry humping and the art of experiencing multiple orgasms]
#5 Buttocking. The butt is an erogenous zone, as it is where the intergluteal cleft is found, just above the anus. This spot is packed with nerve endings, so the best way to stimulate it is by making your partner lay face down on the bed, with you straddling her, pounding your vulva on her anus, and stimulating her cleft with your clit. You can add some lube for more intense contact, and slide up and down and side to side.
Tactile sex
This is when you and your partner explore your senses of touch and feeling as you use your hands and fingers to explore each other’s bodies to stroke, caress, fondle, massage, tickle, tease, and please. [Read: Top 10 erogenous zones that drive women wild in bed]
#6 All over. This is one of the best foreplay tools you can use, especially if you want to get better acquainted with your partner’s body, and find out what turns her on the most. Here, you stroke her all over her body, from her face to her breasts, to her butt, and to her thighs. You can take your time and kiss each other as you explore each other’s bodies.
#7 Fingersmithing. In this position, you sit with one arm holding your weight as your partner straddles your open leg. Both of you reach for each other’s vulvas as you explore the crevices and folds of your labias with hands and fingers. You both gently stroke each other’s clitorises as you kiss, and penetrate each other with your fingers. You can mirror each other’s movements and heighten the speed and pressure as pleasure builds up.
#8 Deep pampering. In this position, one gets pampered with deep penetration. You or your partner will kneel on the bed or on the floor, with her butt up in the air and her chest on the floor, opening up her crotch to you. You then finger her as you kneel next to her, deeply thrusting your fingers into her wide-open vagina. [Read: 11 things to know to make vaginal fisting safer and sexier]
#9 Fanny jam. Another open position that gives you plenty of room to explore your partner is the Fanny Jam. Here, you can lie down as your partner kneels atop your chest, her legs wide open. You then explore her with your hands and fingers, stroking and caressing her clitoris and penetrating her.
#10 Up yours. With this form of tactile sex, you use both hands to simultaneously explore her pussy and her anus. Fingering both stimulates the erogenous zones such as the G-spot in the vagina and the anus itself, which is very sensitive. You can use your fingers to do this, moving in various strokes and speeds to excite your partner and intensify her orgasms. [Read: How to tingle a girl’s g-spot without using a flashlight]
Oral sex
Of course, lesbian sex wouldn’t really be complete without some mouth and tongue action. Here, the experience is heightened as you use your lips and mouth *or even a little of your teeth* to please your partner in different parts of her body.
#11 Mole muff diving. To fully concentrate on the sensations that your partner gives you *and vice versa*, you can blindfold each other as you grope and stroke each other and get into position. As the giver, you can have your partner lie on her back and you go down on her slowly, until you reach her jewels.
By this time, you let your tongue and lips do the work. Be sure to hone into your partner’s body language to find out exactly how she likes to be eaten. [Read: 8 little tips and tricks that’ll make her love the way you go down on her]
#12 Octopussy sixty-nine. A lesbian-style sixty-nine, you and your partner perform oral sex on each other. You lay down on your back as your partner straddles you on top, presenting her vulva to your mouth, spreading her legs wide, as you also spread your legs wide for her to eat you up. At the same time, you can caress each other’s bodies.
#13 Head over heels. If you’re head-over-heels in love with your partner, then you have to try this. You sit on the floor with your back on the sofa. Then, your partner *or you, whoever is more limber* straddles you upside down, her knees propped against the edge of the sofa, upside down in a sort of sitting sixty-nine position. She keeps herself steady with her hands on the floor as her head is between your thighs and you both eat each other up at the same time. [Confessions: 16 of the most awful and hilarious sexual encounters]
#14 Taktilingus. This is a variant of cunnilingus, wherein you eat your partner—except this time, you also employ your sense of touch. As you eat your partner, use one hand to please her. You can stimulate her clitoris with your tongue as you finger her with one or two *or more* fingers, or you can alternate, penetrating her with your tongue as you gently rub her clitoris with your thumb.
#15 Rimming. This is something that can be done with heterosexual sex, but since you are both women, you have a better idea of what spots to hit and how. You position your partner with her butt up in the air, opening her butt cheeks with your hands. Then you lick the “rim” of her anus, stimulating the sensitive nerve endings there. You can also add a little fingering on her pussy as you do this.
Applied sex
Who needs dicks when there are plenty of sex toys to use?
#16 Strap on. A famous lesbian sex position uses a strap-on dildo, which one of you will use to penetrate the other the same way a man does. You can do missionary, doggy-style, and many other sex positions with this one. [Read: 30 day sex challenge – 30 strap on dildo sex positions for 30 days]
#17 Fu*k me dildo. You lay your partner on her back as you penetrate her with a dildo. You can also stimulate her clit as you do this, or apply other sex positions such as oral sex to further enhance her pleasure.
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That wraps up our whistle-stop tour of 17 mind-blowing lesbian sex positions that you should try with your girl. All of these positions are easy and and you can enhance the sensations with lube and sex toys. Whatever you do, just be sure to be safe, comfortable, and—of course—have fun!
