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25 Dirty Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend & Get Her Talking Naughty

If you want to get to know your girlfriend from the inside out in the bedroom, know the right dirty questions to ask your girlfriend.

dirty questions to ask your girlfriend

You want to know more about your partner, but you don’t want to ask them questions as if it’s an interview, right? You want to keep things light and sexy. And these dirty questions to ask your girlfriend like a game is the best way to do it.

First of all, it’s really fun, and secondly, she’ll get to ask you questions as well. So you both will get to know each other. Asking questions can help you understand your partner and the relationship you’re in. Maybe you like the same things in bed, or maybe you both share a similar fantasy. But you won’t know unless you ask.

Now, you control the questions you’re going to ask her. If some of these questions are a little too dirty for the phase of your relationship, then save them for later. You don’t need to ask overly intimate questions on the second date. Take your time and choose the questions you feel fit the phase of your relationship. Oh, and also, there are going to be questions you want to ask that aren’t on the list, so ask them!

[Read: 30 really dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night]

25 dirty questions to ask your girlfriend

When it comes to this question game, follow your gut and start off with suggestive questions, working your way up. So, let’s ask some spicy questions!

#1 How high is your sex drive? Let’s see how sexually compatible you two really are. [Read: Sexually incompatible? The confirming signs of bad sex]

#2 What’s something you want more of in our sex life? Talk about each other’s needs and what you both need to work on.

#3 Do you watch porn? If yes, what kind do they like to watch?

#4 Would you say you’re kinky? If yes, how would they describe their kinkiness?

#5 What’s your dirtiest fantasy? Do you share the same one? 

#6 Have you ever had anal sex? Does she want to try it? [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – the beginner’s guidebook]

#7 What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask me to try—but thought I wouldn’t like? Maybe there’s a fantasy she’s always wanted to try but was too shy to ask.

#8 When did you first have sex? What was her experience like?

#9 What’s your definition of amazing sex? How would she define jaw-dropping sex? [Read: Sexual wish list: 16 naughty deeds to help build your list]

#10 What’s your longest dry spell? How long has she gone without sex? Is your dry spell longer?

#11 What would you like me to wear to bed? Is there something they’ve always wanted to see you wear in bed?

#12 What’s your favorite time of day to have sex? Morning? Afternoon quickie? Midnight romping?

#13 Do you like dirty talk during sex? Not everyone likes dirty talk! [Read: How to talk dirty to a girl without turning her off]

#14 Do you like sexting? Have they done it before? Or is it something they want to try?

#15 Romantic or rough? How do they like it in bed? Do you both enjoy the same type of sex? [Read: How to go from ordinary sex to romantic sex fantasy]

#16 Where’s your favorite place on your body to be touched? We all have our favorite spot. Maybe they’ll make you find out for yourself.

#17 Do you have any fetishes? Feet? Spanking? Cosplay?

#18 What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience? Oh god, we all have at least one story.

#19 What sex position do you want to try? Is there a position they’ve always wanted to try but haven’t?

#20 Would you like to use one of these vibrators on me? That is if they’re into sex toys *talk about that first*.

#21 What’s your favorite part of foreplay? Is it kissing? Caressing? Oral sex?

#22 Have you/would you have group sex? Maybe they’ve had group sex, or maybe it’s on their to-do list. [Read: Sexual truth or date questions for a naughty, sexy night]

#23 If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be? Everyone has at least one celebrity. Who’s their pick?

#24 How would you make me orgasm? Let’s hear it!

#25 What’s something non-sexual that turns you on? A tree? A fork? I don’t know!

[Read: How to talk about sex without sounding like a pervert]

These dirty questions to ask your girlfriend will help you get to know her better and what she really likes in the bedroom.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and ...
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