Feeling uninspired about sexting? Here are 40+ his and hers examples and explanations on how to get your partner hot and horny with a simple text!
Sexting is the new norm between text-worthy couples. But just like dirty talking in the bedroom, many people are lost on how to seduce their partner with their words! Put simply, sending “sext” messages, *or dirty talking through your phone,* is all a matter of creating a buildup, telling your partner what you want them to do to you and vice versa, and describing everything dirty in-between.
All you are doing is creating a word picture that your partner can get off on, and it couldn’t be simpler.
Even something as simple as texting a guy with “I’m so wet, my panties are soaking” is enough to get him going. This paints a word picture. The thought that you’ve been so turned on all day that you’re getting your panties too wet to wear will have him hard in a jiffy.
How to dirty talk your lover through sexy text messages
So, how can you make your partner think about you all day long? By giving them something they just can’t forget! Carefully crafted text messages add a sexy spark to the day and make coming home a whole lot more exciting.
We have 40+ sexting examples, for guys and girls, of how you can get your partner feeling hot and heavy while they’re away from you. But, before jumping straight into the erotic texts, let’s take a look at what *not* to do while dirty texting your mate.
What not to do
Has anyone ever told you that with dirty talk, anything goes? That person is wrong. Very, very wrong. To avoid having your cringe-worthy sexting fail posted all over the Internet, be sure to avoid these unsexy topics. [Read: How to talk dirty to a girl without turning her off]
#1 Don’t come too soon. The titillation of getting a sexy text message is all about the buildup. So starting off a naughty sextcapade by immediately referencing your throbbing, hard dick probably isn’t the best way to go.
Remember, it’s all about a buildup! You’re enticing the body and the mind by saying something suggestive and building up to a story. A nakie story. So don’t ruin the fun by jumping right into the absolute filth! If you have just started out your fantasy, and you’re already digitally boning your girl, where does the story have left to go?
Yes, it’s hot, but it’s the written equivalent of coming too soon! Set a sexy pace that builds anticipation, and take your time getting dirty!
#2 Off-putting words. Let’s start out by giving some examples of very unsexy words to avoid when trying to write out a dirty text. Splooge, jizz, white sauce. Anything that makes come sound like a burger topping is not likely to turn your partner on. Bum, boobs, beaver – the 3 B‘s of unsexy sex talk.
These are all juvenile choices best left avoided. Along with squirt, pussy juice, throbbing rod, and so forth.
Be creative with your adjectives when describing something dirty. If what you’re writing sounds like it’s meant to be in a cheesy porn or Harlequin romance novel, trash it!
#3 F*ck this and f*ck me. I remember when I was young and swore during a sketch scene in drama class. The teachers didn’t scold us, but rather informed us that swearing was the least creative and, therefore, least effective way of getting our point across. The same is true when sexting.
Dropping the F-bomb doesn’t automatically make things hot, or hotter. In fact, you may even end up limiting your creativity in the process. Why bother saying “Then you f*ck me,” when you could instead go into detail about him parting your legs, sliding his fingers across your wet pussy, and finally entering you?
Sexting is all about wordplay, so don’t use fallback F-words. Get creative! [Read: 20 naughty sexting messages to get a naughty conversation started]
#4 Emoticons. Okay, if you’re trying to turn your man on, but your message looks like this: “I can’t wait to get your 8==> into my \|/ when I get home 😀 😀 :D” it’s probably not going to be as effective as you’d hoped.
Yeah, he’ll probably think it’s cute, but it will probably fall under the *funny* category of his brain instead of the *I’m getting some tonight!* one.
The occasional winky 😉 is acceptable…just use with caution!
Sending dirty pictures without sending nudes
Looking to text your partner a naughty picture without baring it all *and potentially baring the shame online for the rest of your life*? Fear not! There are still ways to get dirty with some photos without getting yourself into trouble.
#1 The tease. Lay out a sexy set of lingerie on the bed and snap an Instagram-worthy photo. Text the photo to your man, saying there’s a surprise for him when he gets home. This one is scintillating and to the point without showing a drop of skin! [Read: How to send nude selfies without getting into trouble]
#2 The love-making survival kit. This one works for guys or girls. Simply get a bundle of survival supplies fit for fun, and stage them on your bed. Sexy survival supplies can include chocolate sauce, whipped cream, condoms, flavored lube, candles, roses, sex games, handcuffs, role-play cards, a whip, a feather tickler, and the list goes on.
Snap a shot of these tantalizing teases, and send it off to your lover with the simple caption: “For later… ;)”
#3 The panty-biter. Get your sexiest pair of *clean* panties and drape them sexily between your fingers, or in your mouth. Snap a picture *if you choose mouth, don’t get the rest of your face in there* and send it off. Sexy captions can include “Panties are off. Come home, or I finish without you,” “I’m not wearing anything,” or something cheeky like “Wish you were here.”
These texts are super playful, sassy, and spicy all at the same time. [Read: 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend and leave him stiff]
Guys texting girls – how to dirty talk a girl through texts
Let’s face it, when girls text guys something naughty, they immediately *sound* sexy. Those girls know exactly what they’re doing. But when guys send girls sexy messages, they might not feel as confident that the girl is going to like it. As long as it’s not an unprompted dick pic, odds are she’s going to love it. Both girls and guys like to get sexy texts every now and then…and trust me, we ALL feel stupid doing it!
A point to remember: Girls like to be complimented and made to feel confident, and they like word pictures. So instead of jumping to the X-rated texts straight away, start out with a compliment that lets her know how much she turns you on, and then get into the down-and-dirty stuff.
Now, without further ado, here are the mild to downright filthy sexts you can send your ladylove.
#1 You are so beautiful, it makes me want you so bad.
#2 I want to spread your legs and play with you all night long.
#3 Your body is so sexy, I’ve been thinking about you all day.
#4 Tell me how bad you want to sit on my hard dick and have me thrust in and out of your wet pussy.
#5 I want to make you beg for it.
#6 I love when my face is deep between your legs.
#7 Tell me what you want me to do to that pretty little pussy.
#8 I want to play with you.
#9 I want to tie you down and do filthy things to you.
#10 I’ve been fantasizing about you playing with yourself and getting nice and naughty.
#11 I want to bend you over and take you from behind, making you moan while I play with your clit.
#12 I keep fantasizing about my hard dick in your mouth, where you don’t stop until my come is dripping down your throat.
#13 I’m so lucky that I get to feel those sexy lips against my body.
#14 I want your tits in my mouth, to trace my tongue around your nipples and get you nice and wet.
#15 What’s the dirtiest fantasy you’ve ever had? [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and leave her wet]
#16 I can’t stop thinking about you and what I’m going to do with you later.
#17 Just thinking about you is getting me hard.
#18 I want to bend you over and spank you for being such a dirty little slut.
#19 I am so lucky I get to pleasure someone as sexy as you.
#20 I want to come all over you. [Read: Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long]
Girls texting guys – how to dirty text your man
While men have to use subtlety and tact when texting a girl *to make sure he doesn’t come off like a creep or total D-bag* women can be more upfront with men without scaring them away. Men are oral creatures…and boy, are they mighty proud of their dicks.
So, stroke his ego and let him know he’s in for a night of pampering by talking about how much you crave what he’s packing. Also, guys love vaginas, and they equally love hearing how much you love yours. There’s no reason to indulge him in some kind of sexting lesbian fantasy…just the thought that you love the taste of yourself will do the trick.
Enough with the tips! Here are 20 naughty and nice texts to raise his temperature.
#21 I’ve been so wet all day thinking about you.
#22 I can’t wait until you get home… 😉
#23 I want you to come in my mouth.
#24 I can’t wait to taste you.
#25 I’ve been really bad…I think I need someone to spank me.
#26 I want to suck you off.
#27 Have you ever had a fantasy about me? [Read: 20 naughty and dirty questions to ask your man while texting him]
#28 I can’t stop thinking about your mouth on my c*nt. It makes me so wet.
#29 Come and give me your big cock.
#30 I’m going to sit on your face, moaning all night until you make me come.
#31 Oh baby, you make me feel so naughty.
#32 I want to rub my pussy up against your hard dick.
#33 Can’t stop thinking of your dick between my tits, letting me jerk you off with them and making you come all over me.
#34 I want to be your little slut. [Read: 23 tips to sound really sexy while talking dirty over the phone]
#35 I want you to get me nice and wet and play with my clit while you thrust your hard dick inside of me.
#36 I’ve been bad. Come home and punish me.
#37 I want you to make me come over and over again.
#38 I always get so wet when I think about you licking me. Your tongue feels so good against my clit, it just makes me feel so naughty.
#39 I love it when you kiss me after you go down on me…then we both get a sweet taste.
#40 I had a naughty dream last night…
This last one is a great way to get into a deep and dirty fantasy with him. One fun example is to tell him you dreamt that you met him at a bar, but he had a girlfriend. [Read: How to make a guy horny just by sitting next to him]
Then detail how intensely you were trying to seduce him and all of the naughty touching that went on. So hot!
[Read: Do you sext? Study reveals the truth about couples that sext often]
Throwing a sexy text or dirty story your lover’s way is the perfect solution for a boring work day. Just remember not to be a tease. When they come home, they’re going to be expecting a naughty little minx, so don’t sext it if you don’t mean it!
