Everyone sends nudes these days. But initiating it, that’s where guys go wrong! Here’s how to get a girl to send nudes, and make her want to share more!
In the time of modern romance, nudes have become very common. If you’re wondering how to get a girl to send nudes, well, then keep reading.
Ah, the art of learning how to get a girl to send nudes. It’s a tricky subject. Most girls don’t enjoy the idea of sending naked pictures to men they don’t know and trust completely, simply out of paranoia.
But what about when you’re dating someone? That’s safer, right? But even then, if there’s a bad breakup, then what? What’s going to happen to all those photos? But anyway, most people aren’t worried. Why?
Because almost everyone has sent a nude in their day. Nudes are like receiving a ‘good morning’ text message. People send nudes to each other like they’re emojis.
[Read: How to build trust with a girl and get her to send you nudes without even asking!]
What you need to know before asking a girl to send nudes
But if you’re talking to someone new, sending nudes isn’t going to happen that fast. No way. Even though nudes are really common, people are still cautious when it comes to pressing send.
So, what does this mean for you? Well, the thing about nudes is that you can’t ask for them. That’s right. You should never ask for a nude. Nude photos are gifts. You need to be gifted a nude.
If you’re not gifted one, well, you’re out of luck. So, how you do receive such a gift? This is how to get a girl to send nudes. And no, it doesn’t start with a dick pic.
[Read: 20 ways women will reply to your dick pics if they want to insult you!]
Don’t ask for nudes directly because it’ll get her alarm bells ringing!
This is where many guys go wrong. They’re texting a girl, and out of the blue, they go “send nudes!” Now not only is this not going to result in you not getting any nudes, but she may think you’re creepy and annoying as well. Even if your request was well-intentioned and you’re a decent, respectable guy, that one text is all it takes for her to be wary about you, your texts and every other conversation you have with here there on!
If there’s one thing you need to watch out for, it’s the little signs and hints she drops your way. If a girl is ready to send you nudes, or if she’s imagined herself doing it, you’ll know! Maybe she’s say something like “I bought a new bra today” or maybe something more subtle like “I worked out this morning and I feel so fit and sexy!”.
When she drops a few hints, chances are, she expects you to ask her for a pic. Perhaps, you could say something like “oh wow, I’d love to see that!” which is still leaving the option in her hands. Never, ever just ask a girl to send you nudes. Always be discreet, and watch for the hints.
If you do want to ask for nudes, read this guide on how to ask a girl for nudes and receive a gallery full of sexy naked photos to do it in the most gentlemanly way possible!
How to get a girl to send nudes and get her excited to share more of them with you
If you want to ask a girl for nudes, there are some things you must never ignore. Remember these key details, and you’ll definitely be able to warm her up to sharing those nudes with you!
1. Don’t ask
Like we said earlier, you should never ask a girl for nude photos. First of all, women don’t like the idea of a man asking for a naked photo, it’s not attractive. There’s something sad about asking a woman for a nude photo. You’re more likely to receive one if you don’t ask for a nude. [Read: How to be a gentleman and win her over with your charm]
2. Please, do NOT send a dick pic
Many men think that by sending a dick pic, they’ll receive an endless stream of nudes. But that’s not how it works. See, very few women actually enjoy receiving a dick pic from a man.
There’s no way to take an attractive dick pic, and women aren’t masturbating to the photo. So, keep your dick in your pants for now because it’s not needed.
3. Don’t use the wrong emojis
It’s not cute, it’s not funny. An eggplant and a water drop emoji? Unless both of you have been talking dirty and funny for ages, no girl is going to get horny seeing that emoji!
Instead, you’ll actually make her cringe. And the same goes for peach emojis, or any other emojis that show off the high-game pervert that you are. If you want a girl to send nudes, stick to these flirty and naughty-but-safe emojis instead.
4. Don’t jump straight into dirty pics
If you want nude photos, build up the relationship with her. You can’t just message her for the first time asking for nudes, it’s not going to work. Instead, you need to genuinely talk to her, and see how it goes.
If she likes you, she’ll flirt with you, and allow the relationship to continue to develop. But if she doesn’t like you, don’t push it. [Read: How to slide into a girl’s DM and get a reply]
5. Ask her for pics… the regular ones!
If you want to get a girl to send nudes, she needs to feel good about sharing them with you. And how do you get her comfortable enough to do that? Ask her to share normal selfies first. It’s non-creepy, and sweet. And a perfect setting to get her to send nudes as she warms up towards you.
6. Use memes to get naughty
Sometimes, a few funny memes may make her roll her eyes, but she may still find it amusing and laugh about it, especially if you use any of the the loads of ‘send nude’ memes all over social media – Try this tag for starters, #sendnudesmeme to find a few good ones.
Of course, she may not send you any nudes in response. But it’ll get her mind thinking naughty, and that’ll set the stage to get nudes in the future. [Read: 35 dirty things to say to a girl to leave her wet with desire]
7. Not all women like taking nudes
Don’t assume that all women have an album in their phone of nudes that are just waiting to be sent out. It’s not like that at all. Many women don’t like the idea of taking nudes, everyone has their own preferences. If she doesn’t like the idea of sending nudes to you, she’s not going to do it. Don’t push her. Instead, back off.
8. Dirty talk is an art
If you’re texting, and things are going well, you can slowly add in dirty talk to see what happens. If she doesn’t like it, she’ll reject it, and that’s fine. Now you know where you stand. If she’s into it, you can continue to dirty talk and progress into full-on sexting. If sexting happens, nudes may happen as well. [Read: The art of getting a girl to sext and feel comfortable talking dirty with you]
9. Don’t expect nudes
Some men feel they’re entitled to a woman sending them nudes. But that’s where they’re wrong. No man should feel like they’re entitled to receive nudes from anyone. It’s a woman’s choice whether or not she wants to send nudes.
If she wants to send nudes, that works out well for you. If she doesn’t want to send you nudes, that’s also okay. At the end of the day, she doesn’t need to send you anything. [Read: The nine reasons why a girl might not like you]
10. Understand your partner’s likes
The key to a healthy relationship is figuring out what your partner likes and dislikes. For example, maybe she has a foot fetish and enjoys taking selfies of her feet. But when it comes to nudes, she’s not into it. Everyone has their own comfort levels which you should respect.
11. Don’t be vulgar
For someone to take a photo of their naked body and send it to another person, it takes a lot of courage. They’re really putting themselves out there.
So, that being said, if you get a girl to send you nudes, don’t be vulgar or rude. There’s a line between dirty talking and vulgarity. You should never make a woman feel objectified. It’s disgusting and shows a lack of respect. If this happens, you will never get anywhere with women.
12. You need to show that you’re trustworthy
Why should you be the one to receive a nude photo? How does she know you’re trustworthy? Now, this is a good question to ask yourself. Before she hits send, she’s going to decide whether or not you’re someone she can trust. Show discretion in the type of person you are. [Read: 18 qualities of a good man that sets him apart from lesser men]
13. Show your attraction to her
Don’t nag to get a girl to send nudes, she won’t do it. This isn’t something you can change her mind on. Instead, show your appreciation to her, and make her feel like she’s desired. If she’s attractive to you, let her know. You don’t need to lie or be fake, she’ll sniff it out. [Read: How to show a girl you like her without actually telling her]
14. Show appreciation
If she does send you nude photos, be appreciative. This isn’t something small. It’s a big deal. She literally sent you a photo of her naked body. If you act cold afterward, well, don’t ever expect her to send you a nude photo again. You just squashed her ego, and that isn’t a smart move on your part.
15. Use the right kind of questions
Check out these 20 step-by-step questions to get a girl horny. It really works, and if you learn to use them well just by typing out the exact questions, chances are, you’ll be able to get a girl to send you nudes and want to make out with you, all at once!
[Read: How to make a girl want you and think of you sexually]
Understanding how to get a girl to send nudes isn’t that easy. But follow these tips and it shouldn’t be too hard. At the end of the day, as long as there’s a connection and you’re respectful, she’ll send you nudes. A lot of them!
