Titty sex. We see it in mainstream porn most of the time… but have you ever tried it with your own woman? Here are some must-know tips to please her.
If you don’t know what titty sex is, well, when you see it in porn, it’s usually with a well-endowed woman moaning in pleasure as a guy plows his member through her cleavage.
As hot and inviting as it may seem on screen, women actually get no sexual pleasure when a man goes on to “do the twins.” Honestly, titty sex does nothing for her, except to make her deal with a guy’s full weight pressing on her ribs. And maybe she’ll end up with chafed skin at the chest after he’s done his thing. So, the next time she agrees to a titty-fuck, remember that she’s doing you a favor.
How to make titty sex pleasurable for her
However, there are ways to make titty sex less of a chore for her, and more of an exciting means of foreplay for you to enjoy as a couple. Here are some tips.
#1 Respect her breasts. As the Golden Rule states, treat a woman’s breasts the way you’d want your very own crown jewels to be treated. Again, despite all you see in porn, a woman’s breasts are very fragile, sensitive, and are not built for abuse, even if she likes it rough.
When touching breasts, remember to handle them as you would hold a baby chick; gentle, yet firm as not to kill it. [Read: Why men love boobs – An in-depth scientific explanation]
#2 Compliment her breasts. Since you are about to do unspeakable things to a wonderful pair of puppies, make it up to her with your due of lip service… literally and figuratively if possible. Adore her breasts as you would adore her, and appreciate the size, shape, and feel of them as you fondle and play with them.
#3 Ease her breasts in with a generous amount of foreplay. Aside from the dirty talk, give her boobs a slow, soothing massage using oil or lubricant to make her comfortable and tingly. The lubricant will also help later on once the titty sex starts.
– Start with a slow rub starting from her belly moving up towards to root of her breasts. As you reach her bust, slide your fingers sideways as to trace the outline of her boobs until you reach her collarbone.
– Massage the both her breasts by cupping them from the underboob and then making circular motions until you reach her nipples. [Read: Erotic massage 101 – How to seduce your woman with your fingers]
– Tease her nipples until they become erect; touch or scratch her areolas and nipples lightly with your fingernails for good effect.
– Pay attention to her reaction; girls love a good gentle breast massage. If you’re doing it right, she’ll be comfy and purring like a kitten with her eyes closed.
– Communicate. Ask her if she likes what you’re doing or ask her how she likes them done. Also, don’t forget to compliment her breasts while you’re doing this.
#4 Make sure she’s in a comfortable and safe position before you start. From what we’ve seen in porn, a couple can pull off titty sex in three different ways: one is where the girl is lying down and the guy straddles her above the abdomen. Another way is where the guy is standing up while the girl is kneeling in front of his junk.
The third way is where the guy is lying down on his back while she looms above his penis. Each position has its own advantages. However, it is important to let her choose which position she is comfortable with, since she’s going to do most of the work anyway. [Read: Looking for the best porno ever? Check out these 10 must-sees]
#5 Take control. Most of the time, men would prefer to take control of the pace and thrusts during boob sex. One advantage of letting the guy take control is that the girl can focus on holding her boobs tight to grasp his penis while he does his thing, or she can just lie down as he grabs and pumps them on his own.
By letting the guy set the pace, he can adopt a dominating position, while she is helpless as you “cross her valley.” This works as good foreplay if she’s the submissive type.
#6 Let her take the rein. For most lucky guys who are graced with the offer of titty sex from their partner, it means that she wants to set the pace of your foreplay. What’s good about this, is that you’ll just relax and enjoy the whole view while she does the work and have you at her mercy.
Girls who initiate titty sex often have dominating tendencies and would often throw in a blow job as she sandwiches your penis between her boobs. That’s two birds in one stone: you get the porn experience, and she gets her dominating fantasies fulfilled. [Read: Fake boob alert – how to tell if your girl’s boobs aren’t real]
#7 Incorporate new sensations with boob sex. As mentioned, a woman’s breasts are very sensitive to any form of stimulation. This requires care, but it also means that you can use this to your advantage. If regular fondling and touching gets old, it’s time to experiment with other sensations:
– Tease her nipples with an ice cube or a minty balm. While you’re plowing her cleavage, run an ice cube around her areola and nipples to perk her up. The cold water trickling down her breasts will surely make her crave more skin contact later on. [Read: 8 types of nipples – You definitely haven’t seen them all]
– A touch of fur. Fur-like materials have a good way of rousing skin sensitivity, depending on the user’s preference. A popular favorite, however, would be a pair of soft-silky fur gloves to massage her breasts with while she’s busy with your penis.
– Clamps. For those who like it a little rough, nipple clamps with chains during boob sex are preferred by women who are submissive. You can tug a little at the chains connecting her nipples like a rider as she pleasures you with her breasts.
#8 Get your hands busy. Depending on your position, you could simultaneously pleasure her during a bout of titty sex. It’s better that both parties are enjoying the act rather than one taking it as a chore, so get your hands busy and your toys fired up.
If she’s taking the lead, your free hands can be used to tease her nipples and her clit as she works on your penis. Pleasuring her with a vibrator or a dildo helps too.
[Read: Busty girlfriend – 26 pros and cons of dating a well-endowed girl]
While titty sex looks fun to watch in porn, it actually is less fun for the girls and their boobs with that kind of punishment. Therefore, guys must take the initiative to make boob sex an enjoyable form of foreplay for their female partners in order to make them ask for more.
