Are you someone who finds yourself viewing more girl on girl action than girl on guy, and you’re not sure why? Well, you are not alone!
Whether you’re a guy or gal, there’s no denying – and you can try all you want – that lesbian porn is way more appealing than straight porn. Maybe it’s the beautiful women that you either want or envy, or maybe it’s just because it’s more raw and real.
The fact is that it is just way hotter to get yourself off to some attractive women getting it on than it is to watch some hairy, over-enthusiastic dude bumping uglies with a gorgeous woman.
Now, this is not a topic of discussion that you’ll sit around the office chatting about because let’s get real, it’s still fairly taboo to talk openly about. But that’s why I’m here! You may feel odd – especially you straight girls out there – for finding some ladies getting it on to be really sexy. But don’t. For whatever reason, most people out there get increasingly turned on by this phenomenon, and I’m here to do some of the explaining as to why. [Read: 15 crazy myths about being a lesbian that people still believe]
So why is lesbian porn more intriguing than straight porn?
For starters, this depends on your gender. Men may find it hotter for different reasons than women find it appealing. To really delve into the psychology behind the attraction, we’ll need to take a look at these reasons separately.
Why men find lesbian porn to be way hotter than straight porn
This is a heavily known fact: most men are extremely attracted to a woman getting frisky with another woman. The unanswered question is: why?
#1 It’s something foreign to them. Most men don’t walk around and see a couple of girls going at it on the street. So when they’re happily positioned behind their computers, it’s fascinating to them! Just like we girls flock to someone new who comes into town with an awesome accent, men flock to women getting naked with each other because it’s an uncommon occurrence to them. [Read: The real reason behind why men drool watching two girls kiss]
#2 They want a taste of the “forbidden” fruit. Men love breaking the rules! And to them, some girl on girl action may be the closest they can get to the thrill of it. Since lesbians *though not so much anymore* are taboo in many cultures, men tend to get addicted to the feeling that they’re doing something wrong. And to a lot of them, being “naughty” is a huge turn on.
#3 It’s a way for them to live out their fantasies. Only, they’re not really. Men who find lesbian porn way hotter than straight porn tend to be people who don’t have the option to go out and find a couple of girls to watch and/or take home. These men are probably in committed, and even happy, relationships. Watching lesbian porn lets them live in the fantasy of having two girls all over him, without jeopardizing anything else in his life. What could be hotter than seeing your fantasies come to life? [Read: The best of both worlds – How to date a bisexual woman]
#4 Two – or more – is better than one. This is the simplest fact that makes the most sense. If a guy is into naked girls, then seeing more naked girls is going to be a lot better than just seeing one. What straight male wouldn’t want to see two sets of boobs rubbing all up on each other? It’s way hotter to them than watching another naked man all over the girl.
#5 They can learn a thing or two. Not only is watching double the lady parts going to town a huge turn on, but they also get turned on because they can take what they see in lesbian porn and apply it to their own practices. Not much else turns a man on more than realizing he’s watching something that can make him better in bed.
Men have a competitive nature engraved into their genes, so the possibility of them being better than others really gets them going! This is also a major bonus for all of the significant others of lesbian-watching boy toys. [Read: 10 reasons why guys love watching girls fight just as much as porn]
Why women find lesbian porn way hotter than straight porn
Straight women being attracted to lesbian porn is probably a very little known fact. Truth is, we are! There are a number of reasons why women who aren’t necessarily attracted to girls would be into girls making love on screen.
#1 It appeals to their senses more. Women know what other women like. While watching lesbian porn, it’s way easier for women to picture, visualize, and imagine what the girl is doing to the other because they know that it feels good.
Watching porn where a male is groping, squeezing, and slapping their way around a woman’s body just isn’t a turn on because they know that it’s not something that actually feels good, no matter how loud the porn actress is moaning. [Read: 10 popular moves from porn men do, but women absolutely hate]
#2 It’s less degrading. It’s really hard to stay in the mood when you’re watching a man degrading and insulting a woman on screen. Even if it’s not real, it’s still a major turn off. Lesbian porn is way hotter to women because it seems more real and sultry – something extremely sexy to ladies everywhere.
#3 Watching a man in action just isn’t sexy. Sorry guys! As much as we love you, women don’t want to watch your saggy balls flapping around and see wide shots of your skinny butts plastered across the computer screen. With lesbian porn, we find the women actresses much more attractive.
I know this seems strange. If a woman is straight, how could she be attracted to the women? Hear me out. Just because a woman is straight, doesn’t mean she can’t find the women in lesbian porn to be attractive. The fact of the matter is, most of the time, women porn stars are WAY hotter than the men.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve clicked on a straight porn video and have been bombarded with gross, hairy, unkempt men. In the terms of a man: boner kill! At least in lesbian porn, the women are more likely to be well-groomed and attractive. [Read: 10 reasons why women don’t admit to watching porn in real life]
#4 It plays to a women’s fantasies. Straight porn seems to be equipped with long blow jobs and minimal foreplay on the women’s end. Honestly, women aren’t turned on by watching another woman bobbing up and down on a dude’s crotch.
A woman’s fantasy to be held, kissed, and given attention makes lesbian porn extremely attractive to women. When they get to see all of the things they lust for being brought to life, it gets their engines fired up way more! [Read: 9 easy ways to know if you could be bi-curious]
#5 They feel extra naughty watching it. Just like men like to feel naughty, so do women! The notion that a woman watching lesbian porn is wrong just makes it feel that much more right. Everyone has the desire to be a rule-breaker every once in a while, and watching a couple of hot chicks grinding on each other definitely makes a straight woman feel like she’s doing something she’s not supposed to. Major panty soaker!
Want to get in on the action?
For you newbie lesbian porn watchers, or for those of you looking for some new stuff, have a look at some of these tasteful and popular sites. [Read: 25 common porn myths many people still believe]
#1 ArtsErotica is a website tailored to making romantic porn – best suited for women!
#2 Lesbea is a very well-organized site that has everything you could want – videos, photos, actress bios, behind the scenes footage, and more.
#3 FrolicMe has beautiful porn stars that create intimate and sultry content.
[Read: 13 sensual non-porn movies that will turn you on big time!]
No matter your gender, you can’t help but find lesbian porn appealing. If you’re finding yourself in the mood to watch some people making each other feel good, you’ll most likely find that a couple of gorgeous women fooling around will fit your needs more so than a girl on guy flick.
