Sometimes you need that extra spice and pizzazz in the bedroom. Vanilla sex is fine and dandy; however, it’s time to try some exotic sex positions.
Missionary is great, I mean, you can’t go wrong with this oldie but goodie. But there are some days where you just want to switch it up and try something out of the ordinary. And a few good exotic sex positions can take your sex life to a whole new level.
12 exotic sex positions
And you should try new positions! Sex is for having fun and trying out new things. Why not try as many positions as you can? The worst thing that can happen is that you don’t like it. So, let’s take a look at some of the exotic sex positions you need to try out with your partner.
#1 Sammukha. One of the favorites in the book of Kama Sutra, this is a pretty good position to start with if this is your first time getting out of the vanilla bedroom. What needs to be done is the female leans against the wall with her legs spread open wide enough for the male to enter inside her.
It’ll be awkward at first because this will be completely new to you. Once you adjust yourself and get into the groove, it’s a very sensual and romantic position. [Read: How to be a freak in the sheets without being creepy]
#2 Blooming flower. This position looks like you’re blooming. It’s a pretty artistic position. Just make sure you don’t have any back problems. So, the male lies on his back while the female straddles him. Once in position, she’ll start to slowly lie back. She can use her arms to support herself as you get into the rhythm.
#3 Piditaka. If you google images of this position, you may think you need to be a gymnast to do this, but it’s not as hard as it looks. It’s actually very comfortable and relaxing. The female lies on her back with her knees pulled up to her chest and rests her feet on the male’s chest. The male’s knees will be on the outside of her hips, the male then raises her hips and enter inside her. Basically, it’s a rocking position.
#4 The Peg. This is an interesting position which I think not many people have tried. I didn’t even know this existed until recently. What happens is, the man lays on his side, and the woman curls up into a ball facing the man’s feet. She then wraps her legs around his waist. His legs will be in between hers. She holds onto his legs while he penetrates her.
Listen, you won’t get it right the first time, but after a couple trial and errors, you’ll get into the groove. [Read: From “om” to “o”: Best possible positions for yoga sex]
#5 Tripadam. If you’re wanting to have a quickie with an exotic sex position, this is a perfect one for you and your partner. You can’t really have deep penetration in this position. However, it’s great for some fast fun. Both people need to stand facing each other. The male puts his hand under one of the female’s knees and lifts her leg, turning you two into a tripod.
If you guys are very different in height, this may not be the best position for you. But if you’re the same height, then you’ll love it. [Read: 15 sexy ways to have the best quickie every single time]
#6 Love Lock. Get yourself in love lock down with your partner. It’s a really hot position because you’ll be facing your partner throughout. What you both need to do is lay on your side facing each other. Then the male is going to put his legs in between the female’s, as she wraps her legs around his waist. Then he’ll be able to easily enter inside of her. This is an amazing position for the clitoris.
#7 Janukurpara. Okay, so, if you’re going to the gym then you’ll be able to handle this exotic sex position. But if you’re more of a couch potato then I would do a couple push ups before trying this one out.
The man lifts the female and locks his elbows under her knees while holding her butt with your hands. She’ll be wrapping her hands around your neck. This position gives you deep penetration. Plus, she’ll be super impressed you can lift her while having sex with her.
#8 Reverse cowgirl. This is a great position if the female wants to have the control. This position gives the guy a beautiful view and allows him to relax. While the man is laying on his back, the female straddles him with her back facing him. She’ll essentially ride him like she would if she was in a normal cowgirl position and use her arms and legs to control the speed. [Read: How to do the reverse cowgirl: 12 must-know tips and tricks]
#9 The Bridge. Well, this is one for the books. You’ll need to be flexible and make sure you’re capable of bending over. So, if you have some muscle then you can proceed. The male will go into a bridge position, with the female then straddling him. She will be able to control the speed by pushing her feet off of the ground.
#10 The Amazon. If you have a sturdy chair, then you should give this a try. The man sits on the chair while the woman sits on his lap facing him. Her feet should be able to touch the ground so that she’ll be able to use them to push herself up and down.
#11 The Crouching Tiger. Hidden dragon. Just kidding, there’s no dragon… or is there? The male lies on the bed with his knees on the edge while the woman squats with her back facing him. This is a great position for the woman to control the speed and depth.
While this position is pretty relaxing for the male, however, it is slightly challenging for the female. So as a female, make sure you have some strong hamstrings! [Read: 9 sex positions that could leave you with a broken penis]
#12 The Standing Wheelbarrow. Another position that takes some muscle, the standing wheelbarrow is a lot of fun to try out. The female starts on all fours, and uses a pillow to rest her arms on. The male squats behind her and enters her. Then, once he’s inside, he’ll grab her legs and lifts them into the air, holding her legs for support.
#13 The Indian Handstand. I’m sure they’re not practicing this handstand in India—or maybe they are, who am I to judge. This is a position requiring balance and strength. The male stands up while the female goes into a handstand position. The male holds her legs and he enters into her from behind. [Read: Sexual bucket list – 17 fun and sexy ideas you HAVE to try]
#14 The Ape. An exotic sex position for those looking for something exotic. You won’t look like a monkey doing this I guarantee you. The male lies on his back with his knees to his chest. The female sits down, facing away from her partner, his feet resting on her back while he’s penetrating her. It’s the female’s job to control the balance and the speed.
#15 The Erotic V. Another fun position to try out if you have a strong table handy. The female sits at the edge of the table with the male standing, facing in front of her. The female lifts her legs up in the air, putting the back of her knees onto his shoulders. Her legs will be in a “V” position, and she can use her hands to wrap around his neck for extra stability. [Read: 13 extraordinary sex positions for the very bendy]
#16 The X-Rated. You won’t see this position in any Hollywood films. What’s going to happen is the male lies on his back while the woman lies on her stomach, on top of him, with her head facing his feet. Her legs will be on the side of his waist, in a perfect position to slide easily up and down.
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So, there’s now no excuse if you’re tired of having vanilla sex. Try some of these exotic sex positions out to bring some adventure back into the bedroom.
