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Divine Feminine Energy: What It Is & How to Tap Into the Powerhouse

When you hear the phrase divine feminine energy, what do you think? It’s time to open your mind and explore this meaningful subject!

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Many people cast aside the idea of anything they don’t truly understand. If you’re a logical person, you won’t really ‘get’ spirituality as much as someone who is a little more open to things that can’t be explained. For instance, do you pay much attention to your intuition? Do you trust your inner voice? Do you believe in divine feminine energy?

Personally, I like to think I’m quite an open person regarding anything spiritual and other worldly, but even I had a tough time understanding divine feminine energy. Once I learned more about it , I realized balancing the masculine and feminine energies within me could be extremely beneficial. Guess what? It really is!

It’s impossible to be balanced and centered if you don’t allow both the masculine and feminine to play off of each other and compliment each other. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man, a woman, or you don’t associate with either gender, we all have divine feminine energy within us. Learning how to tap into it can be extremely powerful. I should know, I tried! [Read: How to awaken the divine masculine within you]

What is divine feminine energy?

There is nothing particularly otherworldly about divine feminine energy. It is something we all possess. What matters is whether you embrace it and allow it to flow, or you block it and allow it to stagnate.

Put simply, divine feminine energy is your goddess energy, and it dwells deep within your inner conscious. You also have masculine energy, no matter what your gender. Divine feminine energy is connected to intuition, being in the moment, and it is also connected to the moon.

If you’re someone who regularly feels a little ‘off’ during certain moon phases, e.g. you feel emotional during a full moon, you’re already partly tapped into your goddess side. This type of energy also links to nature and empathy.

You might be wondering what the benefits of tapping into your divine feminine energy can bring you, and I was too, but they’re surprisingly advantageous. For a start, being more empathic and listening to your intuition allows you to make better decisions about the people in your life. It also helps you to connect on a deeper level and enhance your relationships.

On a working note, this could give you a stronger connection to your colleagues and management, which could benefit you in your career. As you can see, it’s not all about the moon and nature! [Read: How to be a better person and grown into a kind human]

Let’s sum up the benefits, just in case you’re still sat firmly on the fence.

– Relying on your intuition, while also allowing logic to play a part, allows you to make solid, well-thought out decisions

– Listening to a ‘hunch’ could be the difference between making a good decision and making a mistake

– Improved relationships, in a romantic sense, work setting, family, and friends

– A greater sense of mindfulness, e.g. being in the moment, rather than in the past or jumping ahead to the future

– Being mindful also helps you appreciate the things around you, leading to all-around happiness

How to tap into your inner divine feminine energy

To release the inner goddess in you, open your mind and accept that it is actually a real thing. Many people struggle with this first step. Mainly, because it is something that can’t be seen. We’re taught to mistrust anything invisible to the eyes, e.g. if you can’t see it, it doesn’t exist, it isn’t real. In that case, you’re never going to be able to embrace the goddess in you. If you’re going to do it, open your mind and believe.

Throw competition out of the window

To display divine feminine energy and ensure balance between the two elements, avoid competition. Instead, work with people, rather than against them. For instance, is there someone in your workplace who you simply don’t get along with, and you find them threatening in your career? Rather than feeling that threat, flip it on its head. See this person as someone you can learn from, someone you can team up with and treat as a mentor.

By doing that, you’ll forge your way towards new horizons and enhance the relationships you have with those around you too.

Displaying more divine feminine energy and embracing everything good it can bring to your life means that every single type of relationship in your life will improve. Friendships will certainly be enhanced, but also those with family members who you perhaps took for granted in the past. This change in the way you see people and how you deal with them will have huge benefits in your life. [Read: How to fine tune your internal compass]

Learn to understand and trust your intuition

One of the biggest cornerstones of divine feminine energy is intuition. As mentioned, we’re taught to trust what we can see and what makes sense, not particularly how something feels. By embracing the goddess within you, think more about how things feel and what an inner voice is trying to tell you, rather than what your brain is trying to tell you.

Not everything in life has to be logical, not everything has to make sense. Sometimes, just because you can’t see something, doesn’t mean it’s not real.

Being able to trust your intuition takes time. It’s something which you’ll need to use regularly in order to build up its strength. Think of it like a muscle you need to work to make it stronger. The more you do it, the greater the rewards. You’ll make sound decisions based on elements aside from logic, and you’ll be able to simply ‘know’ about people who aren’t good for you. Embracing the divine feminine energy within can also help you avoid heartaches in the future.

Avoid destructive self-talk and criticism

We are our own worst enemies. A constant dialogue of damaging self-talk often plays through our minds. What about turning down the volume on that critic and instead listening to the other voice, the one which highlights the positives and celebrates the good points you have?

The same can be said for meeting other people. Instead of criticizing them for what they do and what they don’t do, why not focus on the positives instead?

The ironic thing is that by embracing these positives, you’ll also encourage better quality relationships with those around you. Encouraging someone is far better than tearing them down, and that goes for your own self confidence levels too. [Read: Learn how to be a more positive person and find the silver lining]

Final thoughts on the divine

Embracing your divine feminine energy may feel odd at first. It did for me, but it’s a process you need to stick with. By being more positive, listening to your inner voice, spending more time outside in nature, and celebrating rather than airing towards the negative, you’ll feel instantly better. But other rewards will start to show themselves too.

Relationships improve, your take on life is sunnier, and the grounding feeling of being balanced between the two sides of your bodily energy helps you to make decisions which are sound and positive for your life, both now and in the future.

[Read: How to find happiness within yourself and manifest a better tomorrow]

You might not think you have divine feminine energy within you. Trust me, it’s in there somewhere, waiting to be unearthed. Once you set this energy free, the benefits are far greater than you think.

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Nicky Curtis
Nicky Curtis
Having stumbled from one relationship drama to another throughout her 20s, Nicky is now somewhat of a guru in the crazy world of life and love. Telling it how i...
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