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How to Get Nudes: 14 Secrets to Get Sexy Snaps Without Asking Directly

If you want to know how to get nudes, you need to learn the right way to go about it. First, you have to learn how to ask for nudes without offending them!

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We all know the stereotypes about naked pictures. Guys ask for nudes right away and girls shut them down. You know those guys who gloat about getting all the naked pictures they want? They know what they’re doing and they know how to get nudes without even asking for them.

There’s definitely a right and a wrong way to get someone to send you naughty pictures. If you just flat out ask for them out of nowhere, you’ll be disappointed with the response. You might even find that they don’t speak to you again!

Luckily for you, we have just what you need to learn how to ask for nudes and actually get what you want. [Read: 30 hot, sizzling ways to spice up your sex life and leave you horny 24/7]

Not everyone is down to send nudes

The reason you have to get it right is that not everyone actually wants to send nudes. You have to check beforehand, in the most subtle of ways, of course. Failure to do that means you could end up really offending someone you actually like, or even love.

Look at it this way – if someone asked you to send a nude and you weren’t even sure about them yet, would you want to do it? Would you feel okay about this person? Probably not!

The good news is that there are plenty of people out there who are totally down for a spot of naughty photographic fun – with the right person, of course. [Read: How to see a friend naked – The perverted ways to sneak a peek]

Why sending nudes when you’re in a relationship can be a great thing

Some may say naked pictures and sexting are the worst things to happen to relationships. We disagree. If you’re in a relationship, sending nudes to your partner can really improve it. You’ll increase the anticipation and grow closer with all the fun flirting you’re doing.

As long as you’re being safe about it, there’s no harm in it. Being able to connect with your partner, even when you’re far away, is important for maintaining a healthy relationship. It’s also really valuable for long-distance couples too. [Read: 16 mind-blowing ways to spice up your sex life]

It’s very easy for your sex life to get into a rut after a while. If you’ve been together a long time, things may have become a little stale. Sending nudes can help to add a little spice to your relationship and give your sex life some extra sizzle!

It’s a great way to build up the tension during the day, telling your partner what you want them to do to you and sending them a nude as a way of getting them hot under the collar. The sex at the end of the day is sure to be mind-blowing. [Read: Sexting ideas – 45 sexy tips to effortlessly sext like a real pro and 50 examples to give it a try]

How to get nudes without ever asking for a single picture

In order to get the most gratifying naked pictures, you should never ask. We know that may seem difficult to understand because you may think other people won’t just send you nudes. But you’re wrong.

Many people actually love to and want to send naked pictures but the second they’re asked for them, they see red flags waving in front of their eyes. Here’s how to get nudes without asking for them at all.

1. Form a bond of trust

Nobody is going to send you nudes if they don’t trust you. Why would they? You’ll have a naked picture of them and they’ll have nothing but your word. And if they don’t trust you, that means nothing.

So make sure they trust you and don’t just bullshit your way to get it either. Be a genuine person and show them they can trust you. That way, they won’t worry about sending nudes. [Read: How to properly build trust in a relationship and make it last]

2. Make sure you’ve already been intimate

A girl who’s never stood in front of you naked won’t want to send you naked pictures. That being said, you probably aren’t going to get many nudes from random people this way. But you shouldn’t want to.

You need to have a sexual relationship with someone already if you want to know how to get nudes without asking. When you’re committed to each other and regularly sexually active, you can use sexting as a way to connect further and you won’t have to ask. [Read: 17 of the best naughty ideas to spice up married sex]

3. Sext regularly

Sexting is what you need to do in order to get nudes without asking. If you don’t sext, you won’t have anything prompting the other person to get on their phone and snap a picture.

When you’re already texting naughty things back and forth, sending a nude will just become natural to them. They’ll do it as a means of sexting, especially if you set it up that way. [Read: How to initiate sexting – Make your partner hot and horny for you]

4. Be a little vulnerable yourself

That doesn’t mean you have to be physically vulnerable. However, sending a nude picture is a really vulnerable thing and you have to be fair about it. Why would someone send something that risky to you if you won’t even open up to them and let them in?

5. Turn them on first

If you turn them on, they’ll want to turn you on too. Talk about all the things they love that you do in bed. Go into detail about what you’ll be doing to them later and specifically mention the body parts you want them to send you in a picture.

If they start thinking you really want that specific body part, they’ll be more likely to send it. You basically have to lead them into teasing you with their nudes. [Read: 60 dirty and seductive ways to turn on your lover]

6. Mention how much you love their body

If you start talking up their body and describing how much you like certain parts, they’ll start thinking about sending you those things. You’ll build up their confidence too.

You can even say something about how seeing it would be too much for you right at that moment. This will probably make them want to send one even more!

7. Talk about the last time you were together in bed

Bringing up the last time you two got intimate will immediately trigger their arousal. They’ll be taken back to that moment and, assuming it was a good time, and they’ll get really turned on.

Be as detailed as possible so they know you really want to reimagine that moment together. [Read: 10 reasons why you should have morning sex more often]

8. Tell them you miss them … and their body

If you’ve been apart for a while, tell them you miss them. Begin by pointing out all the things you miss about them that don’t have to do with their body. Then you can eventually talk about what specific parts of their body you miss.

Doing this will first make them think you actually miss their presence, which will be touching and sweet. Then you’ll increase the anticipation and make them miss you, which will prompt them to send that nude you want so badly. [Read: How to make your partner miss you even more]

9. Go into detail about what you’re imagining

If you’re picturing something about their body specifically, talk about it. Go into detail and make them see just how much you pay attention when you’re intimate together.

This is a great way to turn them on and make them want to show you those parts you’re imagining so much.

10. Be appreciative as hell when you do get them

The best way to increase your odds of getting nudes without asking for them is to be as grateful as possible when you do get them.

If you’re indifferent when you receive a nude from your partner, they’re probably going to think twice about sending another in the future. [Read: How to take nude pictures of your lover]

11. Know what turns them on

This is crucial for getting them to send you nudes. If you want them to send naughty pictures, you have to get them in a naughty mindset. And that’ll only happen if you know what turns them on.

That way, you can easily send some dirty texts to get them in the mood. We’ve already established that the more turned on someone is, the more likely they are to send you some dirty pictures. So figure out their turn-ons and put those to work through sexting. [Read: How to sext the right way – 16 tantalizing tips you can’t ignore]

12. Make them think it was their idea

This is, by far, the best way to get nudes sent to you. If you make them think it was their idea all along, they’ll want to do it. To do this, you have to be a little sneaky.

Dropping phrases like, “I miss your naked body. It’s like I forgot what it looks like,” can get you nudes easily.

13. Don’t expect nudes to come your way

This is something to remember whenever you ask for nudes. You can’t expect to receive them ever. It’s not your place to think people will send you nudes. It’s always up to them and they might not always want to.

So be patient and you’ll get your nudes in the end. [Read: How to look better naked by using 15 real life tips]

14. Start with Snapchat first

The reason for this is simple: the photos disappear. This might make them more comfortable with the idea of sending nudes. If you start by texting and things take a turn for the naughty, move to Snapchat.

Sending some cute photos with naughty captions can make them think about sending you naked selfies. When they know the photos will disappear after a few seconds, they’ll feel more comfortable sending some riskier pictures. [Read: Snapchat sexting – How to own your lover with one snap]

Let’s talk about nude snaps and safety 

It’s not only about how to ask for nudes, it’s about understanding the responsibility of it too. Now, we’re sure that you’re asking for these naughty snaps with the best intentions and it’s just to spice up your love life, but never show any of these snaps to anyone else.

They’re intended for your eyes only and that means you need to be very careful with the safety and security of them, if you’re planning on keeping them. 

There’s no 100% secure way to store nudes on your phone. You could lose your phone or it could be hacked. The latter is less likely but the former is totally possible. For that reason, it may be best to delete photos once you’ve looked at them and enjoyed them.

If you do want to keep them, make sure you have a very strong password on your phone and that you do not share it with anyone. Store the photos in a separate folder and if you can, add a password to that too. [Read: How to keep your naked photo safe]

Of course, it goes without saying that you should always double check that you’re sending the photo to the right person, and they should do the same. It’s very easy to be having more than one text conversation and accidentally send the wrong thing to the wrong person!

As long as you’re careful and you share and store nudes in the spirit they’re meant to for, it’s a great way to spice up your sex life and keep the bond of trust alive between you. 

 [Read: Online sexting – 10 biggest rules you need to follow]

If you really want to know how to get nudes without ever having to ask for them, build a relationship based on trust, sexting, and appreciation.

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