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How to Get a Girl to Have Sex With You By Arousing Her Very Subtly

If you want to know how to get a girl to have sex with you, you need to master two things – how to arouse her and how to seduce her. We have that and more!

How to Get a Girl to Have Sex With You

Knowing how to get a girl to have sex with you is a desire all guys have. It’s easy to get attracted to a great girl. But getting her to feel the same way, and sexually desire you just by your mere presence, well, that’s an art you need to master.

You may want to date a girl or you may find her extremely sexually attractive. You’re human, you’re a guy with a biological need to sow your wild oats.

So, of course, you want to bang all the hot girls who’d be willing to sleep with you. But how do you go about getting a girl to have sex with you?

Getting a girl to have sex with you – The two ways that work

Firstly, the nicest way to get to have sex with a girl is to date her and take things forward from there. You like her, you woo her, she likes you back, and you make baby-making motions in bed. All good. You’ll fall in love with a great girl and you’ll have fun in every step of the way. All the way to a happily ever after.

The other way is to make it clear that you just want to keep things non-exclusive and have some sex. Because, you’re bored, she’s bored, and Saturday night feels lonely without someone in bed with you.

If you have a flirty and attractive friend you’re interested in, use the steps given here in how to have sex with a friend and make her your fuck buddy.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re dating a girl or intend to have a sexually exciting flirtationship, making a move to have sex is tricky business. 

You can’t really talk about it too soon. Neither can you make a move to have sex with her unless she approves your moves with reciprocation from the very beginning. [Read: The very obvious signs a girl is Down to F**k with you]

What are you looking for here?

When it comes to getting a girl to have sex with you, there are so many things to consider. So what are you looking for?

Are you already sleeping with a sexy girl and want to make her scream in bed? Use this feature on the 18 wild sex tips to make your girl crave for more!

If you’re looking to emotionally and sexually connect with a girl after getting in bed with her, check this guide out on how to satisfy a woman in bed and excite her like never before.

If you want to seduce a girl slowly, and get her interested in having sex with you, read right on, because you’re in the right place and you will have all the answers you need by the time you’re done with this!

How to get a girl to have sex with you and warm her up to want you

One of the biggest drawbacks with getting a girl to have sex with you for the first time is the trepidation associated with it.

One wrong move and it could tear a big split in the relationship. Before you get to the part where you ask her if she’s interested in sleeping with you, what you need to do is make sure she already wants to sleep with you!

The secret to getting a girl to have sex with you, is to make sure you already know the answer to “does she want to have sex with you?” before you ever think of asking her this question directly.

And to do that right, you need to use this guide on how to seduce a woman and make her want to sleep with you before going further in this article. It’s casual, friendly and flirty in all the right ways. If you follow the steps right, you should have zero difficulty with the steps we’ve given below.

Now, use these steps to get a girl to have sex with you and you really should have no trouble arousing her or having sex with her.

But if she does hesitate to get physical with you at any point, back away. You probably skipped a few steps or rushed into the whole seduction move. And that’s why it’s so important for you to time your moves to perfection. Follow these steps right, and you’ll be surprised just how effortlessly easy it can be to make any girl horny around you, and get them to have sex with you!

[Read: 6 sneaky ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it!]

Try these moves right, and she’ll be more than happy to have sex with you!

1. Let her see your great side

If you want to have sex with a girl, you definitely have to be good enough to get her attention. If she thinks you’re desirable and everything she wants in a great guy, half your work’s cut out for you already. [Read: 25 irresistible traits of a great guy that turn on any girl, sexually and otherwise]

2. Let her know you’re interested in her

Talk to her, spend time with her, and let her catch you staring at her discreetly now and then. Make her wonder if you’re interested in her without revealing too much.

If you ask her out without making her like you first, she’ll lose the excitement of the mysterious relationship. Make her wonder what’s on your mind, make her curious and want more. Do this right, and you’ll make her fall hard for you without even asking her out. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

3. Get out of the friend zone

Unless you’re dating her already, the friend zone is a scary place to be. Friends don’t have sex with each other and they avoid getting sexually attracted to each other. Be her friend, but don’t be just another friend who’s got no sexual interest in her. Make it clear that you find her attractive and sexy from the very beginning.

Tease her sexually, compliment her outfit with sexy remarks and talk dirty with her. Both of you may be friends, but let her feel the sexual tension when you’re around her. [Read: How to avoid the friend zone and arouse her instead!]

4. Spend more time with her

If you want to get a girl to have sex with you, the only time you can work your magic is by getting some alone time with her. You need to flirt sexually and make her feel comfortable to be with you. But you can’t do that when there are other friends around.

Behave normally when there are other people or friends with her. But the second they walk away, say something like, “whew… now I get to spend some alone time with this sexy girl…” or something else that makes it clear that you find her attractive in a more-than-just-friends kind of way.

She may laugh, but she’s thinking “sex” in her mind![Read: 20 step-by-step questions to text a girl and make her wet in under 15 minutes]

5. Go out with her

You don’t have to fix a date to take her out. Grab lunch together at work or help her run an errand now and then. By doing that, you’re already taking the place of her boyfriend in her mind.

But always remember to keep the sexual excitement on a high. Or she’d just look at you as a friend. [Read: How to attract a girl who has a boyfriend]

6. Touch her. And excite her.

The touch is a very powerful way to send the right signals across without seeming desperate. Look for ways to touch her arm or clasp her palm at the opportune moment. The more you touch her delicately and sensually, the more sexually turned on she’d get. [Read: How to flirt sexually by touch without making it obvious at all]

7. Invite her to your place

Invite her to your place, or get invited back to her place. Casually, of course! You’re not inviting her to have sex with you, remember that *at least, not yet!*. You’re only inviting her to hang out with you. You’ve built the sexual tension already. She knows you’re not just a friend, and she definitely knows you’re attracted to her already.

By getting comfortable in each other’s places, it’s taking you one step closer to her bedroom and into her pants. After all, if you’re going to get a girl to have sex with you soon, you need to make her feel comfortable with you in each other’s private spaces.

8. Give her a few sneak peeks

So she thinks you’re a nice guy who’s attracted to her. But that’s really not enough. You need to arouse her and force her to take little glances at your sexy side. [Read: 50 cute and sexy everyday things guys do that girl’s love]

Look away from her and stretch casually when you have a good bulge in your jeans. Let her catch a sneak peek of your obliques and your rather low trousers when you’re changing your shirt at your place.

Always look away when you’re flaunting your body to her. It gives her enough time to admire you curiously or sexually without the fear of getting caught by you. These moves will involuntarily make her get sexually attracted to you and desire you. She may not realize it then, but subconsciously, she’d be very keen to see more of you!

9. Watch a movie together

Go out on a date or stay back at home and watch a movie. A movie involves a few hours of quiet time where both of you sit really close to each other. This is where you can touch her ever so slightly with your arm or your foot. Do it subtly, and discreetly, if you do bring your feet close to her, or your forearm next to hers. [Read: How to make a girl want to cuddle with you so it leads to sex]

If you do it the right way and be patient, the chemistry can be electrifying. If you want to seduce a girl and get her to have sex with you, absentmindedly graze your arm against hers with the slightest of touches while sitting next to her. It’ll turn her on before you know it! [Read: How to sexually arouse a woman mentally without making it obvious]

10. Arouse her the right way

If you want to know how to get a girl to have sex with you, you really need to remember that all the focus is on sexually exciting her and arousing her into making out with you. Never come across as pushy, instead play it safe and slow, instead of going too fast.

[Read: The most powerful ways to make a girl wet and horny just by sitting next to her!]

[Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and seduce her in no time!]

These steps on how to get a girl to have sex with you can help you do more than just kiss the girl you like or touch her breasts in no time. There’s just one thing left to do now, read the next steps on how to make a girl want to kiss you to know the finer details of the next delicate but sexy move!

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