7 Tips to Plan the Perfect Valentine’s Day Surprise

Want to know how to plan a perfect date for your girl this Valentine’s Day? Here’s everything you need to make this day feel more special and loved.

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Want to gift your girlfriend a perfect date this Valentine’s Day?

Well, here’s your guide to making a special day feel a lot more special.

When it comes to impressing a girl on a date, it isn’t just about where you take her or what you buy for her.

Women love feeling appreciated.

They want to feel special and loved.

Make your girl feel cared for on this Valentine’s Day and she’ll love you for it.

[Read: 50 really cute things to say to your girlfriend this Valentine’s Day!]

How to plan a perfect Valentine’s Day for your girl

Take the day off this Valentine’s Day, or if you can’t do that, try to get off work as soon as you possibly can and make up for the lost time by using these tips.

Focus on creating special moments all through the day, and she’ll feel pampered and loved.

Create a checklist of things you need like roses, gifts and table reservations and make sure you’ve completed them all down to the tee beforehand.

And just follow these tips on planning a perfect Valentine’s Day and use them to fill your entire day with happy loving moments for your special girl. [Read: 25 sweet ways to make your girlfriend happy]

#1 Breakfast in bed. Breakfast in bed is a luxury that most of us hardly ever experience. Start your day by sneaking out of bed before your wife wakes up and cook up something simple, and yet perfect for a happy start. Don’t forget to clean the kitchen back up after you’re done cooking so you don’t ruin her day with a messy house.

Place her breakfast by her side of the bed and wake her up gently with a few soft kisses and a posse of fresh roses. [Read: 25 sweet romantic gestures to make your woman’s day!]

#2 Have a shower together. Once you’re done with breakfast, it’s time to head into the shower. You can opt for the bathtub too, but since it’s too early in the day to laze or relax, a good hot shower might just be the perfect way to get fresh and feel sensual all at once. [Read: 9 things you need to know to have the best shower sex ever!]

Having a shower together can be a very sensual experience even if you aren’t having sex. Give your woman a bath and take time moving your hands over her. It’s a perfect way to connect with each other and feel more loved this Valentine’s Day.

#3 Watch a movie. When both of you are all dressed up, cuddle up on the couch and watch a romantic movie together. If you’d like, both of you could head to a theater and catch a mushy movie or a romantic comedy that she’d like. Just remember to focus on your girl’s interests and not on yours. By being selfless and focusing on her likes, you’re letting her know how much she means to you. [Read: Movie date tips for a successful date]

#4 Have lunch alfresco. There’s something very beautiful about dining out in the open with a view that overlooks something beautiful. Take your girlfriend out to lunch in an open air restaurant with a view after the movie or arrange a table in your place that’ll give you the same experience. Or if you want to go one romantic step further, fix a picnic basket with wine, cheese and fine food and head out to a nearby park or the countryside.

#5 Record a home video. Get back to your place after lunch and laze a while with each other. Don’t try to cram up too much into one day. Instead, pace the day so it’s easy and relaxed. And while both of you are lazing in each other’s arms, bring out your cell phone or camera and make a home video talking about the things both of you did this Valentine’s Day, the experiences both of you have shared and any other personal messages to remember as the years roll by. [Read: Tips to write a perfect romantic love letter]

Always create a memory of the good times. It’s one of those little things that can bring a smile on both your lips even after several years have gone by.

#6 Have a candlelight dinner. Order food home and arrange a lot of white candles around your table. Or take your girlfriend out to a romantic restaurant for a perfect candlelight dinner with all the works. Don’t skip this romantic dinner and candles even if both of you are exhausted after a whole day of activities. It can be the perfect ending to a memorable Valentine’s Day. If you’ve bought something special for her, this is probably the best time to give it to her. [Read: The guide to picking the perfect restaurant for Valentine’s Day]

#7 The happy ending. After dinner, drive back to your place and prepare yourself for a good time of relaxed cuddling in between the sheets. Freshen up, have a few glasses of wine and turn the lights off in the bedroom. Light a few candles around the room and indulge in a whole night of pleasurable tantric sex. Make sure you go down on her and spend a while down there. If you want to plan a perfect date for your girl, you need to remember to focus on her pleasure and not yours.

Your woman will definitely enjoy the pleasure and the emotional connection tantric sex can bring into the relationship. And it’ll definitely be the happy ending she’d want to a perfectly romantic and happy Valentine’s Day. [Read: The beginners guide to tantric sex]

[Read: How to think like a woman and impress your girl]

Use this guide on how to plan a perfect Valentine’s Day for your girl and she’ll surely appreciate you and fall more in love with you overnight!

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