Something seems off about your relationship with your girlfriend. So, you want to know the signs she wants to end the relationship. We’ve got you covered.
When it comes to relationships, most of us don’t know what we’re doing. We like someone, start to date them and just go with the flow. Maybe there’s a plan, but usually, we’re just winging it. Knowing the signs she wants to end the relationship will give you direction on what might be coming next.
Of course, all relationships will go through their ups and downs, which is completely normal. You’re getting to know your partner, and there will be times when you’re not sure if they’re the right person for you and vice versa. And it’s with those ups and downs where you start to see who you’re with.
Now, some couples make it through and end up in long-term relationships, and others call it quits.
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Now, you can never really know what goes on in another person’s head. They could be all lovey-dovey one minute and the next they’re telling you to hit the road.
You don’t need to wait for that to happen. Instead, you can just look at the signs and try to map out where things are going.
Yes, the signs. Even the most mysterious people are readable, you just need to be paying attention to catch the small nuances and recognize the signs she wants to end the relationship with you. So, instead of sitting and wondering, try to see if your partner is exhibiting these signs.
Now, it doesn’t mean they’re going to break up with you. But it does mean you need to take it easy and see if you can invest a little bit more energy into the relationship. That is if you want to be with them.
[Read: Why did she suddenly lose interest in you and what you need to do]
The honest signs she wants to end the relationship with you
If she’s over it, the signs she wants to end the relationship are there. You just need to open your eyes and look for them.
1. Pulling away
But she’s doing it ever so slowly. Just enough for you to kind of take notice, but not enough for you to worry.
No, you’re not getting ghosted… at least not yet. She’s trying to create a distance between you both so that when it comes to an end, it won’t be too hard to handle. If this is a long-term relationship, she should be doing better than this! [Read: Why did she suddenly lose interest and what can you learn from this]
2. You feel it coming
In your gut, you feel it coming. You’ve been noticing these signs she wants to end the relationship in many subtle ways so far. You’ve been trying to avoid it and suppress it, but you know what’s going to happen. Now, you’re just sitting and waiting for the train to hit.
But, why sit and wait for her to dump you? You should be confronting her on it and getting it over with if that’s the case. [Read: 10 ways girls casually reject guys they don’t like]
3. You’ve moved down the ladder of priorities
People always prioritize things and people that are important to them. And when you’re in a loving relationship, both partners make each other a priority.
But if she’s no longer investing time into you or showing any interest in being with you, well, your relationship is flatlining, and it’s happening fast.
She has other interests that are coming before you. Once you’re no longer a priority, it’s only a matter of time.
4. She doesn’t care what you do
Whether going out with friends or staying late at work, nothing seems to phase her. She’s not upset if you haven’t seen each other in days; she’s probably happy because now she has something to lean on when it’s time to cut the cord.
If she no longer cares about what you do, well, does she even care about you? [Read: Why is your girlfriend ignoring you all of a sudden? The best ways to fix it]
5. No more deep conversations
You used to talk all night, sharing secrets and deep thoughts you have. But your conversations are now as deep as a kiddie pool. Maybe she asks how your day was, and that’s about it.
She keeps the conversation light and minimal. You know what that means… that’s one of the big signs she wants to end the relationship. [Read: 20 signs she’s leading you on, taking you nowhere and only pretending to love you]
6. She stopped going on dates with you
Maybe she comes over to Netflix and chill, but she’s no longer interested in going out for dinner or grabbing drinks with you.
Now, that’s not a good sign. If she’s into you, she would want to go on fun and hot dates. But if she’s only coming over to your house, then something’s up.
7. You’re no longer visible on her social media
If she’s someone who likes to post pictures of you together, take a look at her profile now. We’re guessing there aren’t as many photos of the two of you, right?
Well, if she’s doing that, she’s slowly inching you out of her life, and giving off the impression she’s either single or soon-to-be single. [Read: How to pinpoint the reasons when a woman loses interest in a man]
8. She’s not present
When you’re with her, she’s not there. Sure, physically, yes, she’s there. But emotionally and mentally, she’s off somewhere else.
If you’re starting to feel a huge distance between you two, then be on high alert because it is one of those clear signs she wants to end the relationship with you. It could be something completely unrelated, but let’s be honest, it’s probably not.
9. She doesn’t fight with you anymore
Couples argue; it’s a normal part of a relationship. But, when you start to talk about something that’s bothering you, she doesn’t even care.
She doesn’t argue with you; instead, she’ll shrug, or maybe just agree to get the conversation over with. If that’s the case, she’s not looking to fight for the relationship. [Read: 27 clear signs she’s not interested in you anymore and getting bored]
10. She dodges any talks about the future
Maybe you wanted to take a trip with her to Mexico in a couple of months, but she’s dodging that conversation like it’s lava.
Listen, if she’s not giving you a firm answer on any future plans, it’s because she’s not sure you will even be together. [Read: How to know what to do if you are unhappy in a relationship]
11. You feel the chemistry fading
When we stop having feelings for someone, the chemistry fades quickly. Basically, it just drops. She doesn’t want to touch you or flirt with you; everything comes to an end.
If this is happening, you should talk to her as soon as possible because this is one of the most important signs she wants to end the relationship.
12. She’s digging metaphors
And not the good kind. She’s talking to you in horrible 80 rom-com cliches, telling you that sometimes things aren’t meant to be.
And if that’s happening, well, then, wake up, because those are pre-breakup metaphors. If she’s dropping hints, call her out on it and see what’s going on.
13. The sex changed
The sex between you was passionate and emotional. Now, it feels empty, as if you’re not actually having sex with anyone.
The noises and touches aren’t genuine; they feel forced and emotionless. If that’s the case, something is definitely going on. Sex is greatly affected once someone emotionally pulls out of a relationship.
14. You don’t feel appreciated
She used to be very sweet and give you endearing compliments or say “thank you” when you did something nice. But that’s all changed.
She doesn’t do any of those things anymore, and you feel unappreciated. In general, that’s not a good sign of a healthy relationship. [Read: How to stop being taken for granted in a relationship]
15. You don’t hang out with her social circle
You use to hang out with her and her friends, but you haven’t seen them in a while. This isn’t a coincidence. If anything, her friends already know what’s going to happen.
If she stops including you in her social circle, she’s giving herself some space and letting you know that you’re no longer a part of the group.
16. She’s always busy
At the beginning of your relationship, she was always available for dates. In fact, she wanted to spend as much time with you as she could.
But now, it’s different. She seems to have a much busier life than she did when you met her. Whenever you ask to get together, she has something else going on. And she might not even be that apologetic about it.
17. She takes a long time to answer your texts
When a person is interested in another, they are very eager to talk to them. So, when they receive a text, they get all giddy inside. They are excited and can’t wait to text back.
If she is taking longer and longer to reply to your texts, you better believe it’s on purpose. This is the indirect way of saying to someone “you’re not important to me.” She hopes you get the hint. [Read: Being left on read – what it really means when they don’t text back]
18. She doesn’t initiate anything
Perhaps when you first started going out, she would initiate texts, phone calls, and suggest hanging out. But now, you are noticing that you are the only one who initiates anything.
In fact, if you didn’t reach out first, you wonder whether she would even notice that the two of you weren’t communicating. She put the ball in your court for initiating anything.
19. She picks fights
Even though we suggested that her not wanting to fight with you anymore could be one of the big signs that she wants to end the relationship, the opposite can be true as well.
She might be picking fights because she’s annoyed with you or because she’s unhappy. Or, she could be doing it so you get so sick and frustrated by the relationship that you end up breaking up with her first.
20. She doesn’t care about your needs
In a healthy relationship, both people need to put the other person’s needs at least equal to their own *if not before*. But when someone has one foot out the door in a relationship, they don’t really care about their partner’s needs anymore.
Instead, they only care about their own. So, if she is exhibiting very selfish behavior, it’s because she wants to only please herself – not you. [Read: 28 signs of a bad girlfriend and how to spot a girl who is bad for you]
21. She hangs out with her single friends
When someone is in a relationship, it’s more usual for them to be with their significant other and/or hang out with other couples.
So, if you have noticed that she has suddenly developed a passion for going out with her single friends and going clubbing, then there is a reason. She is probably trying to live the single life because she likes it.
22. She’s acting weird
This is kind of a vague sign, but you know what we mean. When someone changes their demeanor and they just “don’t seem like themselves” anymore, it’s because they are agitated or unhappy.
She might be emotionally distant or maybe she snaps at you, even though she has never done it before. If she seems like a different person, that is one of the signs she wants to end the relationship. [Read: Why is your girlfriend ignoring you all of a sudden? The fastest fixes to get her interest back]
23. You feel like she’s trying to get you to break up with her
There is any number of things she could be doing that will annoy you and make you angry. If you think she’s doing these things on purpose, she might be.
A lot of girls don’t like hurting other people’s feelings. So, either consciously or subconsciously, she probably will feel less guilty if you do her dirty work and break up the relationship so she doesn’t have to.
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When it comes to relationships, they’re never easy. And even though you want yours to last, there’s a chance it may end if you see these signs she wants to end the relationship.
