The Meaning of DTF & 14 Signs a Girl is Down in Person or a Dating App

There are a lot of phrases that might not be easy to figure out. So, you might be wondering about the meaning of DTF. So what is it? Read on to find out!

meaning of dtf

These days, people throw around so many acronyms that it’s almost difficult to keep up with all of them. One of the common ones now is “DTF.” So, you might be wondering about the meaning of DTF.

So, let’s dive right in and talk about it, and find out the subtle signs to know if someone is DTF too.

The meaning of DTF

If you’ve ever seen Superbad (2007), when Seth Rogan’s character said, “She’s DTF—down to f*ck, man. P and vagi, she wants to f*ck, man!” That’s when it all started.

After that, DTF could be heard everywhere— in the club, in class, and at the library. But what, exactly, is the meaning of DTF? After all, isn’t everyone down to f*ck? Sex is a natural act and at the end of the day, aren’t we all ready to have sex after we reach a certain point in our lives?

Here’s where DTF is different.

While the meaning of DTF seems pretty clear, it typically only refers to those who are ready to have sex at the earliest opportunity. As in, they want to f*ck now. Right now. Right this instant. And that “someone” is usually directed toward women.

So, DTF is basically a phrase that men use to identify which woman probably wants to have sex with them.

How do you know when she’s DTF?

Now that you know the meaning of DTF, how do you know when she actually is? Well, here are some helpful signs to look out for when figuring out if someone you’re interested in is DTF.

Oh, but just because she’s DTF doesn’t mean she’ll want to have sex with YOU in particular.

But, by seeing the signs, you may be able to increase your chances and figure out which girl is interested in you. [Read: 17 clues to spot horny women and easy ways to take one home instantly]

1. She says it

These are rare occasions, but they could happen. If this does occur, pinch yourself and then take the opportunity. There are some women who, when they know what they want, they go and get it. 

If you’re the one they choose, then you’re a lucky man. So if she walks up to you, pulls you in close, and whispers in your ear, “I want you inside me,” this is not a test. We repeat, this is not a test. Leave that club with her and never look back! [Read: 30 foolproof pick-up lines & 10 you should never use]

2. Is alcohol involved? 

Now, getting a girl drunk is not the answer if you’re horny. Alcohol simply acts as a way to lower your inhibitions and allow yourself to approach a girl if you tend to tense up and get nervous.

If you’re at a club, alcohol will most likely be involved, and most of the women there will have had at least a drink. That means you’ll probably have an easier time socially interacting with them.

This can be a pro and a con. If she’s drinking too much, just move on to another girl. Don’t EVER EVER be that guy who preys on drunk girls.

If she’s just had one drink, then you should engage in conversation with her. Chances are, you’ll be able to decode the meaning and pick up on whether or not she’s DTF. [Read: How to pick up girls – 20 super moves to get super lucky with women]

3. She reacts to eye contact

They say that eyes are the windows to the soul… and apparently, the vagina. Never underestimate body language.

Eye contact can tell you everything you need to figure out if you’re wasting your time or not. Is she avoiding eye contact? Not looking at you when you speak? Yeah, those aren’t signs of someone who wants you in their pants.

If the woman is smiling, laughing, licking her lips, and has a softened facial expression, then you’re in the safe lane and should continue the conversation. If you’re not getting a friendly reaction, she’s simply not interested.

[Read: 13 subtle eye contact flirting moves that always work]

4. She isn’t attached to her friends

A woman will be more DTF if she’s not guarding or being guarded by her friends. Most women will go out with their friends, but the difference is how she reacts to them. Is she basically holding her friend’s hands when she’s out? That’s a red flag she’s not interested in leaving her friends for you. 

If she doesn’t leave her friend’s side, it’s probably not going to happen. However, if you see a woman go to the club and she’s walking around by herself, scoping the scene, batting her lashes, and smiling seductively at random men, then she may even be on the prowl herself.

5. The way she moves

If you’re drinking your beer while watching the dance floor, pay attention to the way women move. You may now know the meaning of DTF, but you still need to read the right signs to separate an enthusiastic girl from a crazy one!

If you see a girl who’s jumping around like a rabbit on cocaine, well, she’s probably on cocaine and she will probably not be DTF. Those girls are hyper—moving around everywhere, not paying attention to anything that requires two minutes of focus. 

Stay away from them. It’s a lot of work, and you probably won’t even learn their name.

You need to approach someone who can have a conversation with you and who’s a little calmer. So, if she’s doing a casual sway, moving her body sensually, then you may want to just shimmy your way over to her. [Read: 37 body language cues a girl gives away if she likes you]

6. Her response to physical touch

Does she stiffen up when you casually touch her shoulder? Yeah, that’s not a good sign she’s DTF.

A girl who is DTF is open to physical contact—on a non-sexual scale. If she’s freezing up when you accidentally brush her arm or touch her leg, then why would you expect her to be open to hopping into bed with you?

So before you try to rub her down with your meaty paws, see how the conversation goes and what her body language is like towards you.

If she touches you, then you can respectfully touch her back and see how she reacts. And then take it from there. [Read: How to touch a girl on a date, subtly turn her on and make her want to have sex]

7. She makes an effort to talk to you

Say you meet a girl at the club that night, and the next day, she’s texting you. This is a clear sign that she’s interested.

Women don’t waste their time talking to men they’re not interested in, especially if they just met them.

So if she’s the one continuing the conversation via text and suggesting to meet up, then she’s probably DTF or interested in dating you. Don’t be overly aggressive over text, though. Keep it casual and go with the flow. [Read: How to tell if a girl likes you over text – 28 signs you can’t miss]

8. She’s not on her phone

Everyone is on their phone, busy texting people who are sitting on their couch at home. If a woman isn’t on her phone and is living in the moment and paying attention to what’s happening around her, she’s probably interested in meeting someone who isn’t a picture on Tinder. That’s a great sign she’s interested. [Read: How to talk to a girl and 20 secrets to look smooth doing it!]

So, focus on the women who are actually in tune with their surroundings, because they’ve probably spotted you ten minutes ago while you were standing at the bar. Stop wasting time and make your way to her now, because once she’s on her phone, you’ve lost her.

The obvious signs a girl is DTF on a dating app

Now that you know the meaning of DTF and the signs that a girl is DTF in real life, how can you tell if she is when you meet her on a dating app?

Well, there are several things you can look for when you are looking for someone to have sex with.

9. She is showing her body parts

Photos are very telling. If she is wearing revealing clothes, bikinis, lingerie, or anything else that is wantonly showing off her cleavage or other body parts, then you can be pretty sure that sex is on her mind. [Read: Dirty Snapchats – How to stay safe while sharing your sexy pics]

You see, when a girl is looking for a serious relationship, she won’t put those kinds of sexy photos on her profile because it will give guys the wrong idea. She will be fully clothed and not reveal too much.

So, if you want to find a girl who is DTF on a dating site, just look at her photos. They will tell you everything you need to know.

10. She poses in sexual positions

This is a part of looking at her photos. Beyond what she wears – or doesn’t wear – in her photos, look at how she positions her body. Is she standing straight up or sitting down? Is she leering at the camera like she wants to f*ck it?

If you see girls who look like they are posing for a porn site, then you can be pretty sure that she is trying to attract guys to have sex with.

If she wasn’t, then she would be standing or sitting like any normal person for a regular picture. [Read: How to get nudes – the nicest way to get sexy Snaps without asking]

11. She doesn’t say much about herself in her bio

When a girl is DTF and just looking to get laid on a dating app, there is really no point in writing a lot about herself.

After all, what do guys really need to know about her other than the fact that they think she’s hot? Guys like you who just want to get laid don’t really care if she’s in college or has a dog.

So, take a look at what she says – or doesn’t say – about herself in her bio. If she’s heavy on the sexy photos and very light on the details about who she is, it’s because she doesn’t really want guys to know much about her other than her body.

12. She is overly flirty when messaging you

When someone is looking for a serious relationship on a dating app, they will have some quality message exchanges.

They will ask about each other’s lives and try to get to know each other before they meet. The reason for this is to try to assess compatibility.

But when a girl is not concerned about finding a boyfriend, she will be overly flirty in the messages she sends you. She probably won’t ask about your career or your family. Instead, she might compliment you on your muscles or ask how you got to be so hot. [Read: 34 casual sexual questions to ask a girl over text and make her wet and horny instantly]

13. She talks about sexual things

Since she’s not trying to find a boyfriend, she is not afraid to talk about sexual things with you. She might ask about your sexual fantasies or your favorite positions. Even if she doesn’t start it, she is more than willing to be a participant in the sexual conversation.

She might even ask you for a d*ck pic or send you a picture of her own body parts.

This is a clear “green light” to you that she is definitely DTF. If she wasn’t, then she would not be doing those things on a dating app. [Read: How to get a girl to send nudes and excite her into wanting to do it]

14. She says she is DTF

Well, you can’t get more obvious than this, now can you? She might actually just come right out and say that she is looking to get laid.

It might be evident in her bio *looking for a fun time*, or she might save that for when she starts to message you.

Guys think that girls can be shy, but there are a lot of them who are very direct and upfront with what they want.

So, you might encounter someone who just comes right out and says that she is DTF. And if that’s the case, then it takes all the guesswork away for you!

[Read: How to get a girl really horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

The meaning of DTF can be somewhat convoluted, but the best way to determine if the girl you’re talking to is interested in turning the heat up a notch or two is to look for these simple signs.

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