Sick of doing the same old stuff with your guy? Is Netflix and chill boring you half to death? Here are some new & fun things to do with your boyfriend!
Are you looking for some fun things to do with your boyfriend? Honestly, getting to the point in your relationship where things are easy and you have a routine going is a great thing. It means you two have spent enough time together to get past that initial honeymoon phase and are settling down into your lives together.
But the one thing that just plain sucks about this is that you probably do the same things time and time again. You go to the same restaurant to eat, come home and watch Netflix, and then go to bed. While this can be relaxing, it’s not very fun or exciting.
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How to create fun times with your boyfriend
Yes, having a boyfriend itself can be loads of fun. But, it doesn’t always just happen.
Just as all relationships take work, to keep your relationship with your boyfriend fun you need to do fun things.
Whether you’re in a new relationship and nervous or want to relive some of your early adventurous days, finding fun things to do with your boyfriend is key.
Although you shouldn’t be the only one taking initiative here, coming up with fun things to do with your boyfriend can only benefit your relationship.
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Whether you want fun things to do at home or on the road, turning your downtime into something fun can breathe life back into dull moments, ruts, or boredom.
Instead of watching TV or even playing board games, think outside the box. Sure, we’ll provide you with a lot of spontaneous, unique and fun things to do with your boyfriend. But before you just go checking things off the list, consider what things you’ll both actually find enjoyable.
Why do you need fun things to do with your boyfriend?
This question may seem self-explanatory. After all, a relationship should be fun. No one wants a boring relationship.
But, beyond the obvious, having fun things to do with your boyfriend isn’t just about not being bored. It’s about encouraging each other and enjoying those fun things together.
Sure, your whole relationship won’t always be fun 24/7 but taking the time to put thought into these moments shows your level of care.
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Having fun together as a couple strengthens your bond and boosts your happiness in the relationship. You want a satisfying relationship and feeling good together when having fun improves those positive emotions.
Engaging in truly fun activities helps you work through problems, reestablishes your connection, and boosts happiness overall.
So, even though healthy relationships need some level of fun to last successfully, having fun things to do with your boyfriend will also benefit you outside of your relationship.
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What do you find fun and interesting?
Fun means something different to everyone. For some, fun could be playing a riveting game of chess while for others, it could be skydiving.
We have a huge variety of fun things to do with your boyfriend, but pick and choose what works for you two and your relationship.
Do you want to step outside of your comfort zone? Do you want to take baby steps from at home fun to being more spontaneous?
Taking the initiative and planning out something fun to do with your boyfriend is always great for a surprise, but also try planning something together to really bond over the experience from start to finish.
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Fun things to do with your boyfriend that’ll make him love you more
After a while, you may begin to feel like there’s something missing in your relationship. Like things just aren’t the same as they used to be. This could lead to the dreaded relationship rut. Wouldn’t you like to avoid getting stuck in one of those? [Read: Relationship rut – Why it’s so common and how to recognize and fix it]
It’s scientifically proven that when a couple engages in a new, exciting activity together, that experience can foster positive feelings for the relationship and can make both partners feel closer to one another. These are both crucial for a lasting and loving relationship.
If you’re feeling like your relationship needs a pick-me-up or if you’re just surfing the web for some things to do with your boyfriend, we have everything you’ll ever need!
Here are a few really fun things to do as a couple that can change your love life for good! And if you’re looking for something naughty, here are the naughtiest sexual things to do with your boyfriend to blow his mind in bed!
And if you’re looking for the most fun things to do with your boyfriend, here’s what you need to excite you both again and add that extra spark you’ve been missing. [Read: 13 small changes that greatly improve your relationship]
1. Trivia night
Most local bars or eateries host trivia nights on occasion—usually on a weekly basis. If your usual dinner is getting too boring, go for one of those and see how terrible or great you both are at random trivia. The competitive nature of the game will bring a new edge to your relationship.
2. Plan a vacation
You may not be able to go on a vacation right now, but that doesn’t mean you can’t plan for one with your boyfriend. Check out the best locations, hotels, all the places to visit and everything you’d want to do there. It’ll give you both something to think about, and keep things exciting.
3. Talk about the future
It’s not always that we get the time to do this.
Life always gets in the way, but if you have a few lazy hours together and you’re looking for fun things to do with your boyfriend, just talk about the future, what you want it to be like, and what would be nice to have. Fantasize, and soon, you’ll be able to build it together. [Read: 12 key moments in a relationship that predict your love life together]
4. Make a list of goals
If you want to do something that can seriously change your lives together for the better, make a list of future goals – a monthly one, a half-yearly one and a long-term yearly goal.
What do you wish to achieve alone, and as a couple? Lie down in bed, write down a list of goals and break them up into smaller, easily achievable goals. It’ll show your partner you’re not just cute and sweet, but driven and passionate too! But just make sure both of you follow through on your goals.
5. Talk about the past
The past is something most of us avoid talking about. But just because we don’t talk about it doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t think about it. You don’t have to get into the details, but you can definitely talk about what you’ve learned from your childhood, your past relationships, and everything else that both of you are willing to comfortably share with each other. [Read: How to talk about a past relationship with your partner]
6. Read a book together
Cuddle up in each other’s arms, and take turns reading a few pages out to each other. It may seem boring and not up there on the list of fun things to do with your boyfriend, but before you know it, both of you will be hooked and spend a whole day just reading the book and cuddling up.
7. Talk about secrets
We all have skeletons in the closet, but talking about some of those skeletons can actually bring both of you closer together. And, it’s a huge relief to unburden yourself off someone of those secrets too. [Read: 25 topics you must talk about in a happy relationship]
8. Watch porn!
Yup, you heard that right! There is nothing wrong with watching a bit of porn together and having a laugh. Well, it starts out with both of you laughing until, boom, your panties are off and you’re wondering how did a boring afternoon turn into a whole day of passionate sex.
9. Write each other a letter
Humor us, seriously! It seems like the most boring thing to do, but sometimes, putting pen on paper is a gesture you’ll remember for an entire lifetime. Time each other for 30 minutes *you can always take extra time!* and ask your boyfriend to write a love note, and you do the same for him. [Read: How to write a heartfelt love letter like a true romantic]
10. Go on a long drive
It doesn’t have to be anywhere specific, nor does it have to be a long journey or road trip. Just hop into the car, and drive for a couple of hours to wherever the road takes you. It’s a great way to explore, and the spontaneity of it all will make your relationship more exciting. [Read: 20 fun, unique things to do on a long car ride to make it memorable]
11. Teach him something
Teach him something for the afternoon. Show him how to paint or the basics of guitar. Take a skill you have and introduce him to it patiently. Let him know you want him to be part of your world.
12. Let him choose
Let him plan a date for you. Maybe he’ll take you to a game, make you a candlelit dinner, or drive up the coast. If you’re looking for fun things to do with your boyfriend, let him plan the entire thing. This way he gets to have fun with the planning and you can relax. [Read: How to plan a date that’ll knock the socks off anyone you want to impress]
13. Rent a luxury car
Rent a luxury car for the day. Drive through a scenic route and enjoy all the special features of a fancy car. You may even come away from the day realizing you’re not high maintenance enough to own one.
14. Go to a convention
I don’t know about you but I’ve always dreamed of going to a fan convention. It’s something I’ve always wanted to do but have never done. Pick something you’re both fans of, get tickets, and make a weekend of it. It is an experience you’re unlikely to forget.
15. Go to an arcade
Playing games together resurges your excitement from childhood. We rarely get to feel that as adults. Go to an arcade and compete which each other. Play games he likes and that you like. You could also up the stakes by thinking of a prize for the winner.
16. Learn something new together
Take a cooking class, an archery course, or even learn to ride horses. Learning something together that you both don’t how to do will help you work on your teamwork and is new and exciting.
17. Join a team or league
Not all fun things for couples to do are simply dates. Join a bowling league or softball team or couples or just people who like something. Maybe you get together once a week or once a month. But interacting with others together can really add to your relationship. [Read: The best double dating ideas and why every couple should double date]
18. Explore the unknown
Turn off your GPS and just drive somewhere together. Have a rough idea of how far you want to go, but just drive around. You can appreciate the scenery, look at houses, or walk around a town you come upon. Not having a plan can be one of the most fun things you can do with your boyfriend.
19. Host something
Host a party, a book club, a wine tasting, or even a game night for friends and family. Doing something together where you need to work together is going to help you build your bond and will offer you a great night of memories.
20. Make boredom fun
Not everything fun you do with your boyfriend will be bungee jumping fun. Make everyday things fun. Next time you have a day of household chores, compete for who can check the most of their to-do list first. [Read: Relationship boredom and the cures that can fix your love life forever]
21. Build a fort
Take it back to childhood once again and build a fort of blankets, pillows, sheets, and cuddle up. Have a snack collection, a movie night, or even play video games.
22. Reminisce
Print out photos of your memories together and make an album or frame them. Going through your old memories and talking about those good times is something we don’t do often enough.
23. Create something
Whether you’re making something from scratch or building an IKEA coffee table, accomplishing something together may not seem like fun, but it will be.
24. Dress up
Get dressed up in your finest clothes and go to a fancy restaurant. Even if you can’t afford their pretentious prices, get a drink at the bar or split a dessert. As fun as lounging in sweats is, it can be a lot of fun to put that effort in. [Read: 38 easy hacks to look rich like you’re rolling in cash]
25. Babysit
Of course, this won’t be fun for everyone but having a few hours of childlike enjoyment is way better than you think. Plus, at the end of the night, you get to go home and relax in silence.
26. House hunt
Even if you aren’t house shopping or planning to move or live together, exploring open houses is loads of fun. You can see some strange things in people’s houses. You can also get an idea of what you both like for when that time does come.
27. Bodypainting
This is a messy one, so keep that in mind. But, get a large canvas or even just a large white sheet. Lay it down in the yard, put on some cheap bathing suits you don’t mind ruining, and splatter non-toxic paint all over then roll around in it. Make your own work of art. And you get to finish off by showering together. [Read: The best sex games to play with your boyfriend in bed]
28. Plant a garden
If the time of year is right, do your research and plant a garden together. It could be for herbs, flowers, or vegetables. Growing your own food, caring for a garden, and then being able to enjoy the hard work you’ve put in together is so satisfying.
29. Go see a psychic
With a quick Google search, you can find a handful of local psychics, both legit and cheesy. Whether you’re a skeptic or not, this is sure to be fun. Do you two have a future together? Will you be famous?
30. Endure a haunted house
Whether it is Halloween season or not, there is somewhere haunted near you for sure. There are ghost stories everywhere. Go to a planned haunted house or explore a haunted town, road, or even just somewhere spooky. The adrenaline will push you together in more ways than one.
31. Go camping
Whether your master campers or not, this is sure to be fun. Decide how you want to go about it. Will you stay in the car? Will you learn to pitch a tent? Will you rent a cabin or a night? Or will you take baby steps by camping in the backyard? [Read: The 10 types of vacations that’ll bring you closer and build the romance]
32. Local comedy club
Instead of going to a professional comedian’s show, find something small and local. An open mic night is way more fun and unexpected.
33. Take a risk
Pool some money and play the lottery, go bungee-jumping, or sky-diving. Pick the one that is cool with both of you, but taking those adrenaline-boosting risks enhancing your shared excitement.
34. Sexy board games
Board games may be a little safe, but adding a new layer to them *or removing a layer* ups the stakes. Play a couple rounds of any game you like and for each round, the loser needs to lose a piece of clothing. I think you know where that’s headed. [Read: 32 sexy truth or dare questions for a wild and naughty night]
35. Make your own blackout
You really need to be creative but this can turn out to be one of the most creative and fun things to do with your boyfriend. Turn off the lights, light some candles, and put away all screens and electronics. See what you can do together that doesn’t require electricity.
36. Spring cleaning
This sounds less than fun, but give it a chance. At the very least, you get something done. Go through your attic, closets, and storage spaces and clean together. Try on old clothes and discover what weird stuff you’ve both been holding onto.
37. Make your own drink
Whether you’re a binge drinker or not, make your own custom drink. Pick up some mixers, some fruit, and your favorite alcoholic beverages, and go for it. Be sure to take small sips and supplement with food and water between concoctions. [Read: What your favorite drink says about you and the kind of person you are]
38. Gaze into the future
Whether you’ve been together a few weeks, a few years, or anywhere in between, discuss your dreams for the future. Do you want to travel the world? Do you want 5 kids? Do you want to move to the suburbs? [Read: 30 serious questions to ask your boyfriend and build a really deep bond]
39. Show each other where you grew up
Take a trip to your hometowns and show each other around. Introduce each other to neighbors, your family, and show them your school, your mall, and your favorite diner.
40. Make a playlist
Make a playlist for your relationship. Picks songs that mean something to you, that fit your story, or you just both like.
41. Blindfold each other
Start with something PG like feeding each other and guessing what you’re eating. This can go from there to kissing, undressing, and seeing where it takes you.
42. Go out at dawn
Wake up at dawn and go for a walk, watch the sunrise, and enjoy the few moments of silence together before the rest of the world wakes up.
43. Adopt a pet
Only do this if you’re actually ready for the responsibility. If you are, it is the best thing in the world. Reduce a dog, cat, or even a rabbit. Buying toys, building that bond, and essentially becoming parents together will be so fulfilling. [Read: Adopting a pet? The true signs both of you are ready to get one together]
44. Massages
Give each other massages, actual massages. Get out the oils and lotions and really do a good job. You can take it a step further and make an entire spa day out of it.
45. Rearrange the furniture
Remember what it was like rearranging your bedroom as a kid? Well, why not recreate that feeling with your boyfriend?
46. Switch houses with friends
Instead of renting on a website switch houses for the weekend with people you know and trust. Think of this as a staycation. Just being in a new environment together can really change the mood.
47. Host a water balloon fight
Get some friends together and host a water balloon or water gun fight. If it isn’t summer where you are, make it a snowball fight. You can create teams or just go wild.
48. Love each other
I know that sounds cheesy, but hear me out. Take time to write out the things you love about each other. Fold them up and put them in one jar for you and one for him. Don’t read them.
Next time you have a fight, are feeling down, or just need a bit of pep in your step pull out one of the papers and you’ll have an instant smile.
49. Rent a boat
Rent a rowboat, jet skis, or a paddleboat. Go out on the water for the day. Getting off land can be a very freeing feeling to enjoy together.
50. Talk
Of course, you talk every day but do this differently. Stay home and make time to talk. Don’t get up and do chores or check your phone. Just talk. Ask each other questions. No matter how long you’ve been together there is always more to know. [Read: The 16 best things to talk about with your boyfriend over text]
51. Laser tag
What’s not fun and exciting about running around trying to “shoot” your significant other? Stay on opposite teams to make the night even more fun.
52. Trampoline world
Have you ever heard of a building that is filled with trampolines? These have been popping up in cities all across the country, and they allow you to just jump away through the entire place on trampolines for a small price.
53. Picnic
If the weather is nice, pack a picnic and head out for the afternoon. It’s way more fun than sitting inside eating food, and you’ll probably find more things to talk about while being outdoors. [Read: The 20 best and worst venues for a romantic picnic]
54. Camping
Get out of the house for a few days and be one with nature for a little while. Even better yet, leave your phones in the car for the night and listen to all the sounds of nature while you snuggle with your honey.
55. Prank a friend
Think of a mutual friend you have and devise a sneaky plan to prank them. You’ll have a ridiculous amount of fun being evil together.
56. Host a barbeque… and have a water balloon fight!
But don’t tell anyone about it. Make sure you have a “no cell phone” rule in effect during the party and keep all the guests’ phones in a bucket. Then you and your boyfriend can start attacking everyone with water balloons and watch as the fun unfolds. [Read: 20 fun and unconventional date ideas that both of you can try]
57. Go canoeing and bring snacks and wine
If there’s a nearby river or lake, rent a canoe and spend a few hours on the water. Snacks and wine will make the evening that much more romantic, too.
58. Visit a local museum
You can learn an awful lot about any town or location by visiting a museum. You can have a nice evening together while learning something at the same time.
59. Try a Pinterest project and post your failure!
Let’s be honest, most Pinterest projects end in disaster. What could be more fun and funny than spending an afternoon accomplishing something, even if it doesn’t exactly turn out the way you’d planned? If it does work out, you have something new for your place. If it doesn’t, it’s still a fun story and an even funnier picture. [Read: 13 weird, unique ways to build intimacy with your partner]
60. Go to a concert
Even if it’s just a local group, go listen! You’ll end up dancing the night away in no time. And who knows, you may even find your new favorite band.
61. Play some video games
A fun racing game like Mario Kart is enough to get the competitiveness going and keep the night entertaining.
62. Have a goofy photoshoot
Have a friend who has a camera come over and dress each other up in goofy outfits for a fun, memorable photoshoot. [Read: Why being an Instagram boyfriend makes a guy awesome and not whipped]
63. Finger paint together
Pick an object to focus on and paint away, but only use your fingers! Whoever’s is the best wins. And if you want to take it one step further, use a few paintbrushes and a canvas. In all probability, by the time both of you are done, you’ll have something to hang on the wall… a true work of love that can last forever!
64. Make some mad libs!
Look up some mad lib templates and let each other pick out words to fill in the blanks. Your stomach will be sore from laughing before the night’s over.
65. Go to an amusement park
If you’re looking for fun things to do with your boyfriend, and there’s a park near you, go have some adrenaline-filled fun! Order a funnel cake and see who can eat it the fastest.
66. Go ice skating
That is, if both of you can actually skate. Or even if you can’t, this could be a chance to learn something new together! [Read: 20 perfectly romantic winter dates]
67. Go to the zoo
Who says the zoo is for little kids? Go enjoy the monkeys, food, and fun.
68. Make a blanket fort and watch movies
If you want to spice up your usual movie night, make a blanket fort together and watch movies under it. You can even make a bunch of snacks from your childhood and reminisce about the good old times. [Read: The best date night ideas during COVID – Easy and fun ways to keep on dating]
69. Play in the snow
If you’re stuck in the winter blues, head outside and play in the snow! Have a snowman-making competition or even a snowball fight. You can even enjoy a long, hot bubble bath together afterwards.
70. Play a game of ping pong… with high stakes
Set the rules and a prize and play away! You could even make the loser your slave for a week.
71. People-watch
This is my personal favorite. Pick a bench somewhere that’s populated and watch the people who walk by. Make up different scenarios and be their voices.
72. Play strip poker
This says enough for itself. Strip down, and I think we both know where the evening will go. [Read: The most sexiest and fun games to play with your boyfriend in bed]
73. Take a cooking class together
There are a lot of places that offer cooking classes to the public. Sign up and get cooking. Who knows, maybe you’ll learn something valuable.
74. Go sing karaoke and sing a cheesy love song
My personal favorite is almost any duet from Grease. A couple of drinks beforehand will make things much easier. [Read: 20 most romantic songs for the one you love]
75. Go on a scavenger hunt
Have each other make a map of clues and riddles and have a prize waiting at the end. It could be anything from a free massage from you to a gift card to their favorite store.
76. Make bucket lists
Most people have a mental bucket list of things they want to accomplish before they die, but have you ever written them down? If you’re looking for interesting things to do with your boyfriend, make a physical list and read them to each other. You’ll not only learn more about your partner, but now you’ll be able to help each other cross stuff off, too. [Read: Sexual bucket list – 17 fun sex ideas you have to try]
77. Get a psychic reading together
If there are any psychics in your area, go spend a few bucks and hear what they have to say. Even if you don’t believe in it, it’ll make for a great story.
78. Dress each other up and go out for dessert and coffee only
I’m always curious as to what my boyfriend would choose to dress me up in if he had the choice. Dress each other up in what you think they look best in and head out for some fancy dessert and coffee—a twist on your typical date night.
79. Make an at-home spa day
Bring out the candles and scented oils, turn down the lights, and put on some soothing music. Have a spa day where each of you gives the other a nice full-body massage. [Read: 13 naughty date ideas to add a sexy sizzle to love]
80. Netflix and chill all day
One of the easiest ways to spend all day together. Need we say more?
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Being in a long-term relationship doesn’t have to mean that you’ll run out of fun things to do. These unique and fun things to do with your boyfriend are just the beginning of all the amazing things you and your boyfriend can do together.
