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In a Relationship with a Polar Opposite? 15 Truths Revealed

Some say opposites attract and some say that’s a complete lie. Here is exactly what can happen in a relationship with a polar opposite.

Polar Opposite

As long as I’ve been interested in dating, I’ve heard, find someone your polar opposite. The rule of attraction has always been that opposites attract. If you find someone too much like you, you’ll get bored.
But how much of this is true and how much of the law of attraction remains with the application of science? We’ve sought to uncover just how dating someone your polar opposite affects your relationship.
The importance of finding like-minded people
Most agree we usually prefer to spend our time surrounded by people who have similarities with us. We all like the same foods, same music, and even the same hobbies. And that’s a great thing!
It’s important to surround yourself with people who value the same things and have the same morals as you. It keeps you motivated and supported. It’s healthy to talk about similar interests and engage with people who think just like you.
So can a relationship really work if you’re polar opposite?
This is the age-old question plaguing people in relationships—or trying to be in relationships—for as long as time. How different can two people be before it’s too different to maintain a healthy and happy relationship?
A number of different things to consider when choosing a life partner. Someone you’re going to spend the majority of your time with. In order to uncover if a relationship really works with your polar opposite, we have to decipher if these 15 truths prove that they can.
#1 Polar opposites entertain you more. Not only will you always be learning something new about them, but you’ll always be so entertained with their life because it’s so much different than your own. You’ll have something interesting to catch your eye at every turn. [Read: Having a great relationship with your total opposite]
#2 You’ll get into more little arguments. Arguing is a healthy part of any relationship, but if you’re dating your polar opposite they’re going to be an ongoing part of your relationship, too. You’ll be picking little fights here and there simply because your opinions and tastes differ so much. If you’re not good at handing arguments, this type of relationship may not be for you.
#3 They’ll get you out of your comfort zone. Most of us stay stuck in this little cocoon of comfort allowing us to live our everyday lives as we wish. However, when you date your polar opposite, you’ll be thrust into a different world completely. If you’re not down for being a little uncomfortable at times, a relationship with your polar opposite won’t really work.
#4 You’ll introduce them to new things and vice versa. Polar opposites view life differently. Different things entertain them. If you date your polar opposite, you’re going to be introduced to many new and exciting things. You might end up loving them. [Read: Couples bucket list: 20 things every couple needs to do]
#5 Sometimes your opinions may even change. You may be so far in your own cocoon you don’t realize how much your opinions might differ if you were introduced to other viewpoints. Your polar opposite even changes these opinions, and you’ll take up a different view on life.
#6 You’ll get unique advice. The advice you usually receive is from people with the same mindset as you. Basically, it’s like you’re getting advice from yourself, and maybe that’s why you never follow it.
But if you get into a relationship with your polar opposite, they’re going to give you advice you wouldn’t normally get. It could make a huge difference in your life. [Read: How to accept your differences for relationship success]
#7 Your routine breaks up. Your polar opposite is not going to have the same schedule as you. You’re going to have to break up your routine if you date them. If you can’t handle a bumpy schedule then this type of relationship might not work out.
#8 You’ll be less judgmental. Your polar opposite is going to have you seeing and doing things you never would have been exposed to. This causes you to stop judging others doing things you’ve never tried. You’ll take on a more open-minded view on life.
#9 You’ll find new characteristics you never knew you liked. Maybe your polar opposite does something you find super attractive, but you never would have realized it before! Dating them opens your eyes to other characteristics you might find appealing in a person. [Read: The 12 rules of attraction as explained by science]
#10 And you’ll also find qualities you can’t stand. The truth is, you’re polar opposites for a reason. There are going to be times when you can’t stand something they do or say. Whether or not you choose to continue a relationship with someone is up to you.
#11 You’ll have to give up a lot more. Since a relationship with a polar opposite takes you away from your likes and hobbies, you’ll have to give up some more time and attention to the things they enjoy, too. If you’re someone stuck in your ways, this could be hard to get past.
#12 You may feel more complete. Your polar opposite fills different voids in your life you didn’t even know were empty. If you’re shy and they’re outgoing, it’ll pull you into that atmosphere and help you feel more complete and like a more well-rounded individual. [Read: 18 emotions you shouldn’t feel in a healthy relationship]
#13 You’ll get great at compromising. Compromising is a skill, I swear. Some people are absolutely terrible at it, but if you date your polar opposite you’ll be a professional at compromise in no time.
Dating someone with different opinions and hobbies as you leaves room for compromise on what you’re going to do for date night and even what you’ll have for dinner. This leads to opportunities to practice your compromising skills.
#14 You’ll never have to share food. More than likely, your polar opposite doesn’t like the same foods as you. This is PERFECT if you’re someone who doesn’t like sharing—like me. If they don’t like your food, you won’t have to give up any of your delicious meal to them, and you can be completely satisfied with it.
#15 You’ll never really be bored. This is the best point for anyone who usually ends relationships simply because of boredom. If that sounds like you, try dating your polar opposite because that might be the best relationship you’ll have.
 [Read: Do opposites attract or do they push each other away?]
The truth about whether or not a relationship works with your polar opposite is entirely up to how much different you can handle. Consider these truths about dating a polar opposite to help you determine if it’ll work for you.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...