110+ Sexy & Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy & Seduce Him In No Time

Looking for the best sexy, dirty questions to text a guy and make him desire you sexually? Use this, and 100%, you’ll excite and seduce him instantly!

Sexy & Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy

The right kind of dirty, sexy questions to ask a guy can go a long way in building the sexual tension, teasing a guy, or even seducing a guy into making him want you sexually. And the best part, you can be as sexually suggestive or friendly as you’d like, and make him think he’s the one initiating the dirty questions. Wanna know how you can do this? Read on!

How to use these sexy questions to seduce a guy you like

There are different ways to use dirty questions while texting a guy. Is this a guy you like, and you want to seduce him? Or is this someone you’ve been intimate with already? As much as sexy questions may seem generic, and like they’re all the same, they’re very different!

As you read on, we’ve split the article into two sections – you can use the step-by-step 20 sexy questions we have below, to text a guy casually to begin with, and seduce him into talking dirty and desiring you sexually within the next 30 minutes.

And further below, we have shared a list of 90+ sexy questions to ask a guy, if you’ve already been intimate with him and want to get him hard and horny just reading your texts.

Try these texts, and you’ll be surprised to see just how effective they can be in the art of seduction.

The art of dirty questions, texts and building sexual tension

You can always ask these sexy questions face to face, but it’s never as effective or as powerful as using them via texts. In person, there’s awkwardness, fear, stress, anxiety and what-not to get in the way and kill the mood. But if you use these questions while texting a guy, not only are you going to leave him grinning and stiff in his shorts, you’re also going to make him imagine things.

And imagination is a very powerful tool to seduce a guy and make him horny every time he thinks of you and your texts. Time your questions right, and you’ll accomplish your mission of seducing him in no time.

In case you want to seduce a guy and make him horny when you’re hanging out with him, use this guide on how to get a guy horny and hard while casually sitting next to him to arouse a guy discreetly, without making your secret plans obvious at all!

Part 1 – Sexy questions to ask a guy and seduce him

If you two have never sexted each other, and have never been sexually intimate, use these questions to make him think of you sexually. You can ask these questions in person, but I’d suggest you do it via a text.

Text these questions one after the other in the order that’s mentioned here, and there’s a huge chance that both of you would be making out with each other by the time you’re done asking him these questions. Are you ready to put these sexy questions that’ll get him in your bed to the test?

But just to be sure you’ve already build the sexual tension with this guy, use this guide on how to seduce a man who’s not yet yours and build the sexual tension with him to make sure he’s craving for you already!

The right kind of dirty questions to seduce a guy

There are many kinds of sexy questions you can ask a guy.

But if you want to turn him on, in no time, you have to remember to start off by warming him up and eventually getting more personal and intimate with each passing question.

Ask questions to which you already know the answers to. But hear it from him.

Don’t make it seem like you’re the only one asking all the dirty questions. By using these questions, you’ll make his answers get more and more naughty with each passing question, so it’ll always seem like he’s the one making all the moves.

Be subtle in your questions, at least at the beginning and get dirtier with each question you ask. And always remember this, avoid asking him questions that make him focus on anything other than you once you’re halfway past these questions.

Text him when you know he’s all alone and has no plans for the night. Your focus is to seduce him into sleeping with you without ever appearing like the desperate one. Trust us, stick to these 20 step-by-step questions and we assure you, he’ll be in your bed before the night is over!

[Read: How to turn a guy on without touching him – A guide to get him to fantasize about you]

The 20 naughty questions to make him come to you all hot and horny

Start off by texting something casual and try to figure out if he’s lazing and has the time to text you for an hour or so without any interruptions. These 20 questions are open ended questions and he’ll ask you for your answers all the while too. Play coy, but let him know you’re enjoying the texts when you respond to him. And you’ll be able to work your magic and seduce him in an hour’s time with these 20 texts!

#1 Hey, I’m curious, do you ever check me out when I walk away from you? *curious and casual*

#2 Have you ever hooked up with a friend? *to get his mind thinking of hookups*

#3 Do you think you’re a good kisser? [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]

#4 Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked? *funny, but with a naughty twist*

#5 Have you ever felt like flashing to someone? *you’re probably turning him on*

#6 What are you wearing right now? *harmless…*

#7 What’s the sexiest outfit a girl should wear to turn you on? *know his fantasies*

#8 What kind of outfit would look best on me? *make him think of you sexually*

#9 Would you help me pick that outfit if I asked you to? *who wouldn’t?!*

#10 What’s your favorite part of a girl’s body? *he’s going to think of you naked*

#11 Which part of my body do you think looks the best? *make him say it!*

#12 What do you wear when you go to bed? *a minor distraction so he asks you the same thing*

#13 When was the last time a girl was in your bed? *you want him to ask the same thing back*

#14 What’s your idea of good foreplay? *he’s talking dirty already*

#15 What’s your favorite sexual fantasy? *you’re arousing him*

#16 Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together? *funny, but oh-so-horny now*

#17 Have you ever sexted your picture to anyone? *if you share pics here, crop out your face*

#18 Have you ever felt horny while texting on the phone? *like now?!*

#19 If I were with you right now, what would you do to me? *he’s fantasizing about all the things he can do to you*

#20 Do you wanna come over to my place now? *and… he’s on his way!*

Try it!

Don’t think these 20 sexy questions to ask a guy can get him into bed with you before the end of the text conversation? Try it, you’ll be surprised. Just remember to avoid trying to sound funny, focus on feeling sexy and let him know that you’re horny!

[Read: How to get a guy to sleep with you and woo him without being slutty]

Part 2 – Dirty questions to ask a guy you’ve hooked up with

Whether you’ve just a met a new guy or are looking to spice things up in a relationship, these dirty questions will make any man hot, hot, HOT!

It’s great to add a little something different into the bedroom from time to time, and asking seriously dirty questions to get your man all hot and bothered is certainly one way to do it! These 90 questions are sexy, seductive, and downright dirty and may even help you discover more about each other. They are the perfect way to build up explosive sexual tension and get him thinking about you all day long.

90 sexy, dirty questions to ask a guy and make him want more

Whether you want to take it slow and simply try out some subtle flirting when he is not with you, or if you want to be more direct in the bedroom, there are questions that will suit every girl’s needs.

You can text some of these questions to him when he is at work to get him feeling horny at his desk and counting down the minutes until he gets home. Some are good if you are apart from each other a lot or have a long-distance relationship. Others are perfect to whisper in his ear when you are about to get down and dirty! But hey, why not take a stab at trying them all out?

#1 When is the last time you dreamt about me naked?

#2 What looks hotter on me, short skirts or short shorts? [Read: How to look sexy without trying to look sexy]

#3 Can you tell what color underwear I have on today?

#4 What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve done in bed?

#5 What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done in your life?

#6 What is your sexiest fantasy? [Read: The top 50 kinky sex ideas for a lust-fueled relationship]

#7 Do you want to be inside me right now?

#8 Which part of your body do you want me to touch?

#9 Which part of your body do you want me to lick? [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]

#10 Which part of your body do you want me to nibble?

#11 What shall I do with all this leftover whipped cream?

#12 Have you ever been caught having sex?

#13 Have you ever been caught masturbating?

#14 Do you want to watch me masturbate? [Read: The 15 sexy benefits of masturbation]

#15 Have you used any sex toys before?

#16 Do you want to use a sex toy on me?

#17 Do you prefer oral, vaginal, or anal sex?

#18 Do you want to try anal sex? [Read: The dirty truth: Is it possible to have an anal orgasm?]

#19 Want me to shave my pussy?

#20 Would you help me shave my pussy? [Read: Trim, shave, or natural: The real score on the bush]

#21 What’s your favorite sexual position?

#22 Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?

#23 If you could sleep with a celebrity, who would it be?

#24 Would you get jealous if you saw me flirting with another guy? [Read: How to make a guy jealous and get his attention]

#25 How would you feel if I kissed a hot girl?

#26 Have you ever considered a threesome?

#27 What’s the hottest thing I’ve ever done to you?

#28 Where is the most exciting place you’ve had sex? [Read: The best places to have sex – 41 wild and naughty places beyond the bed]

#29 Are you a boobs or a butt kind of guy? [Read: Why do guys like breasts like crazy?]

#30 Do you want me to talk dirty right now?

#31 Do you like what I am doing?

#32 Do you want me to go faster?

#33 Do you want me to slow down?

#34 What do you want me to do to you?

#35 Have you ever disturbed the neighbors because you were having really loud sex? [Read: How to moan & look and sound even more sexy in bed]

#36 Have you ever done it outside?

#37 What’s the sexiest book you’ve ever read?

#38 What’s the sexiest film you’ve ever seen?

#39 Do you want to watch some porn together?

#40 Do you like the idea of someone watching us have sex?

#41 Do you like the idea of tying me up?

#42 Do you like the idea of being tied up by me?

#43 Do you want to try rough sex? [Read: 15 ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever]

#44 Do you want me to be dominant?

#45 Do you want to suck my toes?

#46 Have you ever been to a strip club?

#47 How many fingers could you get inside me? [Read: Sexual exploration: Ever heard of the finger blowjob?]

#48 Do you want to go skinny-dipping?

#49 What’s your favorite part of my body?

#50 Do you feel horny right now?

#51 Do you check me out when I leave the room?

#51 What’s the sexiest outfit on a girl?

#52 Do you think I am a good kisser? [Read: 12 foolproof kissing tips for a perfectly sexy smooch]

#53 Do you think you are a good kisser?

#54 Where would you like me to kiss you the most?

#55 Where do you want me to kiss you the most?

#56 Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked?

#57 Have you ever slept with more than one person in the same night? [Read: Is he a player or a gentleman? 13 clear giveaways]

#58 How do you feel about group sex?

#59 Would it turn you on to see me making out with someone else?

#60 If I were to dress up like a nurse or a naughty schoolgirl, which would you prefer?

#61 Do you want to have phone sex with me?

#62 Do you want to have FaceTime sex with me?

#63 What outfit do you think would look best on me?

#64 Want to play a game?

#65 Want to get really drunk and have sex all night long?

#66 What’s the longest you’ve lasted during sex? [Read: 15 things you do that turn him off while having sex!]

#67 What’s the most mind-blowing orgasm you’ve ever had?

#68 How many times have you had sex in one night?

#69 When did I look the hottest to you and why?

#70 What is your favorite underwear on me?

#71 Do you like this outfit?

#72 Do you want to get wild in bed tonight? [Read: 9 wild ways to have sex in the shower and enjoy it!]

#73 If you could do absolutely anything to me in the bedroom, what would it be?

#74 Do you prefer it fast or slow?

#75 Do you want me to call out your name in bed?

#76 Have you ever had multiple orgasms? [Read: How to push the right buttons to achieve multiple orgasms]

#77 Have you ever given a girl multiple orgasms?

#78 Want to try this new sex position later?

#79 I’m thinking about you naked right now, are you thinking about me?

#80 Do you want to rip my clothes off right now?

#81 What are you going to do to me when you get home tonight?

#82 I’ve been a very naughty girl, how are you going to punish me? [Read: 6 naughty ways to tease your man and leave him hard]

#83 Which female superhero would you have sex with and why?

#84 Want me to dress up as a superhero?

#85 Do you want to stay in bed all day together?

#86 I’m getting in the shower now, want to join me? [Read: Slippery when wet: Make shower sex sizzle with these tips]

#87 Do you want to have a bath together later?

#89 I’m so horny right now, what are you going to do about it?

#90 I’m cold, wanna warm me up? [Read: 20 hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind in bed]

These awesome sexy and dirty questions to ask a guy are sure to have any guy worked up and ready to tear your clothes off! So if you feel like you could add a little “ooh la la“ to your sex life, then why not try them out and see how well they work?

Are you looking for more sexy and naughty questions to ask a guy or text him? Try these:

60 dirty and sexy things to say to a guy + the magic art of dirty talking to impress him

30 hot texts that’ll turn him on and leave him obscenely horny 

How to tell if a guy is turned on – 22 horny signs he aroused AF!

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