The 26 Naughtiest Things to Say in a Foreign Language

Sick of trying to tantalize your lover in boring old English? Spice it up by trying 26 sizzling sayings in 3 different languages of love!

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If you’ve mastered the art of seductive sayings and dirty talk alike, then you’re probably wondering how to up your game. The solution? Seduce in a language of love, such as French, Spanish, or Italian!

Why are these particular languages considered so romantic? As it turns out, French, Italian, and Spanish *as well as dozens of other languages* are derived from Latin, wherein the word “romance” literally means “to speak.” So, the best way to romance your love? Speak! In these sexy languages.

Don’t just take it from us; learn for yourself how effective these sexy sayings are by trying them on your partner—or your intended partner. For your *and your partner’s* pleasure, here are 26 naughty sayings for him and her in 3 foreign languages!

Sweet and sexy Spanish

Spanish is one of the coveted “languages of love.” Not only is the accent super-hot, the language itself is undeniably sexy. Did you know that Spanish is the official language of 22 countries? Talk about sultry seductions! Here are some Spanish phrases you can use to lure your lover.

Sexy Spanish for him

#1 “I love your pussy.” – “Me encanta tu coà±o.” Why not get straight to the point with your lady love? Tell her in slow and sexy Spanish how much you love what she’s got between her legs.

#2 “You’re making me hard.” – “Me està¡s haciendo erecto.” You know how you love to hear that your girl’s getting nice and wet? Likewise, women love to hear about their men getting hard. So tell her!

#3 “Tell me your fantasy.” – “Dime tu fantasia.” Let her know in the sexiest way possible that you want to indulge her every whim by listening to and acting out her favorite fantasy. [Read: 12 arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

#4 “You’re so sexy.” – “Eres tan sexy.” Compliments will get you everywhere, and this blush-worthy line is no exception. Tell your partner how sexy you find her. This is a great phrase for many different occasions—whether she’s stepping out in a new dress, or while you’re smack dab in the middle of getting down and dirty.

Sexy Spanish for her

#5 “You’re giving me goosebumps.” – “Me està¡s dando la piel de gallina.” Being intimate is all about sensation—sound, sight, smell, touch, and taste. Let him know he’s turning you on in unimaginable ways by telling him of the shivering goosebumps all over your body after the perfect orgasm.

#6 “I love you.” – “Te quiero.” While telling your partner dirty tidbits may work for some, not everyone is going to be a fan. After all, having a match of verbal foreplay doesn’t have to be all dirty words! Turn your partner on with sexy words of love with this sweet Spanish phrase. [Read: 25 loves you even if he doesn’t say it out loud]

#7 “I’m playing with myself.” – “Estoy jugando conmigo mismo.” Opposite of the phrase above, sometimes it’s nice to say something raunchy to your guy. He likes to hear it, and the shock value is fantastic. Let him know through a sexy text or wanton phone call that you’re right in the middle of touching yourself, and ask him what he’d do if he were next to you.

Fabulously naughty French

Did you know that almost 2 million Americans speak French fluently? Yum! If you’ve ever been seduced in the French language, you already know that your lover could pretty much say anything in French, and you’d be transfixed. Seduce your partner with…

Naughty French sayings for him

#8 “I want you.” – “J’ai envie de toi.” Telling your partner you want her practically says it all. You’re game and ready for whatever her heart desires. Let your lady love know that you’re digging her vibes and you want her right now.

#9 “You turn me on.” – “Tu m’excites.” Want to really get her going? Take your girl’s hand, and move it down south to your pants, so she can feel how hard she’s making you, all while whispering these sexy French words in her ear. [Read: How to get a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

#10 “You’re so beautiful.” – “Vous êtes si belle.” Hey, women love to be flattered! Get sensual by telling the love of your life how beautiful you find her. We guarantee she’ll love it.

#11 “You are my fantasy come true.” – “Vous êtes mon fantasme devenu réalité.” This form of flattery can be considered both sweet and sensual. Either way, it’s a clear winner. Tell your partner you don’t need anything more, because she’s your fantasy come true.

#12 “Suck my c*ck.” – “Suces moi la bite.” Want her to go… you know… there? Invite her to rile you up by telling her exactly what you wish she would do.

Naughty French sayings for her

#13 “I’ve prepared a special dessert for you.” – “Je vous ai préparé un dessert spécial pour vous.” This flirty verbal foreplay is both sweet and sexy. Tell your guy you have something special waiting for him after dinner. Tone is everything, here. Make sure you say this in your hottest, most sultry tone, and we’re sure he’ll get the picture.

#14 “Harder!” – “Plus forte!” Want your guy to make some rough love? Tell him exactly what you want in this easy, one-word command. [Read: 15 dirty ways to have the roughest sex ever]

#15 “Come here and tease me.” – “Venir ici et me taquiner.” Who doesn’t get off with a little naughty teasing? This sexy French gem tells him you want him to play with you all night. Pro tip: this would also be the perfect sign off to a sexy voicemail!

#16 “F*ck me.” – “Baises moi.” Straight and to the point. You want him? Let him know it with this vulgar French instruction!

#17 “Finger me.” – “Doigtes moi.” Want to get both your partner and yourself revved up for the big show? Tell your partner exactly what you want him to do with this sultry phrase.

Illicit Italiano

Looking to make your partner go “Mama-Mia!” between the sheets? Get each other hot and bothered with these naughty Italian phrases that can be used during the naughty act, or as flirty foreplay.

Sexy Italian phrases for him

#18 “Suck my dick.” – “Succhiami il cazzo.” Do you love a little bit of rough D/S role play? Tell her exactly what you want with this forward phrase. Another optional, albeit more polite, way to get her to give you oral pleasure is to simply tell her to “inginocchiati” or “kneel.”

#19 “Rub your clit.” – “Strofinati la clitoride.” Yum, yum, yum. Nothing is sexier than a man who’s turned on by a woman turning herself on. Get your lady hot and bothered as you enjoy the show by telling her to start rubbing her clit.

#20 “Spread your legs.” – “Apri le gambe.” Get your girl straight to the point by asking her *in your huskiest “I want you” voice* to open her legs and let you in.

#21 “I’m coming.” – “Sto venendo.” Pretty self-explanatory. Not only is hearing that your partner is coming to the peak of ecstasy a great head’s up, it’s also totally hot. [Read: The art of talking dirty to a girl without turning her off]

Sexy Italian phrases for her

#22 “Put your hands on me.” – “Metti le mani su di me.” Remember how in Titanic, right before Jack and Rose get it on in the steamy, sweaty car, she tells him: “Put your hands on me, Jack”? This line was so hot in the 90’s that even Oprah had to comment. There’s something sexy about not outright commanding, but inviting your partner to put his hands on you and roam about.

#23 “I am your little whore.” – “Sono la tua puttanella.” Get down and dirty with this sexy phrase, and tell your partner slowly and softly how he makes you want to do things you never thought you’d do. Like, ever. [Read: 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend]

#24 “I want you.” – “Ti voglio.” Plain and simple, let your partner know that you want him and that you’re ready to get down to the good stuff. Remember, this doesn’t have to mean: WE ARE HAVING SEX NOW! In fact, whispering “I want you” in your partner’s ear at a work or family function can result in some fantastic verbal foreplay.

#25 “I’ve been a bad girl.” – “Sono stato una cattiva ragazza.” Guys love to hear what a bad little girl you’ve been while he’s been gone *unless you actually have been bad, then he’ll hate it*. Follow this by telling him you’ve been so bad that you need to be spanked. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy wants to see in his girl]

#26 “You can have it any way you want.” – “Puoi avere qualsiasi modo si desidera.” Don’t say it unless you really mean it! Indulge his fantasy, and tell him you’re up for whatever he wants tonight. Follow up? Tell him you get to choose your fantasy next time.

If you’re still looking for a little bit of ooh-la-la in another language to spice things up with your lover, you could always try using Google Translate—just don’t expect spot-on results!

[Read: Top 50 kinky ideas you need to try in a sexy relationship]

In the end, whether you tantalize your partner with your foreign tongue or simply make them laugh, remember to enjoy yourselves and make it fun.

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