27 Naughty, Sexy & Fun Games to Play with Your Boyfriend in Bed & Out

Sometimes we all need to inject a little excitement into our love lives. The good news is there are plenty of sexy, fun games to play with your boyfriend. 

Ever found yourself spending a whole afternoon with your boyfriend and wondering what to do? Both of you may love each other a lot, but on a lazy afternoon, it can get rather boring even in the best of company. That’s why learning a few fun games to play with your boyfriend is a great idea – you can easily jazz up a boring afternoon!

If you’ve got no plans to get out of the house, and still want to have some fun at home, here’s all you need to know. [Read: 45 funny questions to get to know someone better instantly]

Games don’t have to be sexy, but it’s fun if they are!

Learning games to play with your boyfriend can be sexy games to play in the bedroom, or they can be fun and even sweet games to play anywhere. The point is that you’re spending quality time together and creating memories. Whether they’re sexy memories or not, that’s up to you!

When couples don’t focus on doing fun things together, that’s when boredom can start to creep in.

The longer it goes on for, the further apart you’ll drift. So, by learning some games to play with your boyfriend, you’ll be able to avoid that risk and look forward to plenty of smiles and a bond like no other.

So, first let’s check out some regular fun games to play with you boyfriend, and then sexy it up a little with some horny fun games to be had in the bedroom! [Read: 30 naughty, sexual questions for couples to keep the sexy spark alive]

Fun games to play with your boyfriend at any time

Before we get to the sexy games below, let’s start with the flirty fun ones. These games are ideal for a boring afternoon in, a road trip, or simply a quick burst of fun when you’re bored in general!

1. No words

A perfect first-date game you can play with a guy is to start with two full glasses of drinks, whether alcoholic or not. Then, one person begins by asking “yes-or-no” questions about the other.

For example, you can ask, “Did you think I’m attractive the moment I walked into the room?” The other will then answer by sipping on the drink. One sip means “yes,” and two sips means “no.”

You take turns after the answerer is finished with the drink. You can be as serious, funny, or teasing as you want to. [Read: 30 flirty, fun questions to ask your boyfriend and learn his secrets]

2. Two truths and a lie

This is another getting-to-know-you game. You start by telling your date or your guy two truths about you and one lie.

Your partner then has to figure out which one is the lie among the three things you said. You take turns and, in the process, find out so much juicy stuff about each other.

3. Never have I ever

This is another exciting game that you can play with your man, whether you are out for drinks or at Sunday brunch.

This game to play with your boyfriend requires that each of you have drinks or even small finger food. You take turns by saying, “Never have I ever done…” and you say some random activity that you’ve never experienced.

If your boyfriend sips from his drink, that means he’s already done that thing you mentioned. The trick is to think of something you know your partner may have already done and, therefore, have him finish his drink or food first. [Read: Conversation games – 15 best talking games for fun and lots of laughs]

4. True or false

Another version of the previous game is “True or False,” which is also speedier. One of you will tell the other some piece of personal information, and the other has to guess if it’s true or false. This is a great way to break the ice on a first date or create a stronger steady relationship bond.

5. Sticker stalker

This is a fun game that you and your man will have a blast with. “Sticker Stalker” is a sneaky game that requires stealth and agility as you secretly stick Post-its or stickers on people, whether in the supermarket, at the park, or in your office.

The challenge is to stick stuff to as many people as you can without their noticing. The person to put the most stickers on people wins. [Read: How to be funny and make people love your company]

6. Sing song ping pong

Channel your inner Pitch Perfect Barden Bella with this game. It doesn’t matter whether you are a great singer or terribly off-key.

You or your guy can start the game by singing a line from a song, and then the other should be able to quickly pick up the last word and start a new song with that last word, and the game goes on. The person who can’t come up with a song loses the game.

7. Spirit animal

In this fun game to play with your boyfriend, each of you will need to have a paper, pen, and some coloring materials. You should each visualize the aura of the other, and then draw their spirit animal. You should then do the same for yourself.

Then, when both of you are done, show your work to each other and explain why you drew what you drew. This is a great way to learn something new about each other. [Read: The big things about love you’ll only learn from experience]

8. Scavenger hunt

While more elaborate, a well-executed scavenger hunt can be very fun and exciting. One of you will be the game master in charge of setting up the scavenger hunt.

The game master prepares a small gift for each solved clue, as well as another clue to the next location. This is a clean, yet romantic game you can play on Valentine’s Day or even on your anniversary.

9. 21 questions

Because you’re such a great couple, you can take the classic game of “20 Questions” up a notch. You make the other guess about something within an agreed-upon category, and your partner has to start asking up to 21 questions to guess what it is. [Read: 4x 21 sweet and naughty questions to ask a guy and entice him]

10. Truth or dare

Of course, this is a famous game that has to be on this list of games to play with your boyfriend. It can be very R-rated or wholesome, depending on how you play it.

You just take turns asking each other, “Truth or dare?” and if your partner says “truth,” you ask him a question. If he answers “dare,” however, you have to think up clever and difficult ways to give him an order or a dare.

It could be anything goofy, disgusting, sexy, or something you both have never done before. [Read: The 87 best truth or dare questions for a wild and sexy night]

11. Double date charades

This classic game is best played with another couple, like a double date. Serve appetizers and maybe some cocktails or wine, and see which partner or team is better.

This is also a great way to spend time with other couples or other people instead of just with each other.

12. Board game night

Every weekend or as a way to unwind every night, you and your partner can play board games. You can choose or agree on what board game: chess, Monopoly, Scrabble, Word Factory, the list is endless.

Then you can keep tabs on who wins, and the person with the most wins each week can get a special reward. [Read: 15 fun games to play when you’re bored and want to do something fun]

13. Twister

Another one of the no-brainer fun games to play with your boyfriend is Twister. It’s fun and lets you both unwind in a much more physical way—except there’s no sex involved. Find out who is more flexible and bendy—and who knows, you may even end up plopping on the floor together in laughter.

14. Rock, paper, scissors

Stuck on a boring commute together or waiting in line for takeout? You can play this simple childhood game. It’s fun, simple, and you don’t need any tool or equipment, other than your hands.

So whittle away the time and have some fun. You can even make it more exciting by betting on who wins and giving a reward to the winner.

15. Staring game

This may be a childish one in this list of games to play with your boyfriend, but the “staring game” is a fun game to play at any stage of your relationship.

It’s a great way to get to know each other physically, be amazed at the color of your partner’s eyes, notice that lone freckle on his nose, or just look at each other without distractions—except for the goofy faces you both make and the laughs that are sure to follow. [Read: 35 signs a man is emotionally attached to you and ready to get closer]

The best sexy games to play with your boyfriend

While love and romance is great for a relationship, it’s not enough to keep the excitement alive. To enjoy each other’s company, you need some giggles and sexy times too.

Tease your boyfriend, have fun with him and you’ll see how easy it can be to turn a boring afternoon into a day of fun, games, and sex that both of you will love.

Pick any of these games and give it a whirl. Your boyfriend may be apprehensive at first, but it’ll only take a few minutes for him to get into the naughty mood. [Read: 28 desirable ways to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]

1. Crossdress in each other’s clothes

When you have some time in your hands, stand in front of each other’s wardrobes and start wearing each other’s clothes.

Don’t forget the underwear too! With each dress-up game, you’ll have more fun with each other, especially if you both decide to make out wearing each other’s clothes. *weird – yes, kinky and sexy – yes too!*

2. Webcam chat

Sit in front of your computer with your boyfriend and log onto any webcam chatting sites like Omegle or Chatroulette. You don’t need to have sex in front of your webcam if you don’t feel like it.

Just indulge in a bit of foreplay while watching other couples or singles on the cam. It’s a sexy time killer that’s also exciting and a lot of sexual fun.

But just a word of caution, DO NOT show your face on your webcam to protect your identity if you’re getting naked. [Read: 6 things to know before stripping for your webcam]

3. Doctor and nurse roleplay

Role-playing is one of those sex games to play with your boyfriend that’s definitely arouse him instantly. You can dress up as characters and try to fake-force/convince each other to have sex.

One of you can be the doctor while the other is a patient or a nurse. Just choose your own characters and have fun enacting them. [Read: The sexual role playing guide for first timers]

4. Sexy 20 questions

Cuddle up next to each other or get in bed and cover yourselves completely so you’re in the dark under the blanket.

Kiss each other or start making out. But while doing that, take turns to ask each other sexy intimate questions about crushes, fetishes, or favorite times.

When you’re horny and in the dark, the truth will flow easily and both of you will feel less awkward confessing any dirty secrets. This game will not only be fun, but it’ll also bring both of you and your sexual desires closer. [Read: 20 naughty and sexy questions to ask your boyfriend]

5. Strip poker and dice

These are all-time classics in sexual games. While strip poker may be more fun involving another couple, it can still be a lot of fun if you add a few dares and truths in the game if it’s just the both of you.

Or just pick up a couple of sexy dice and roll away. Don’t have dice? Make little sex notes by tearing small sheets of paper and write a few dirty things to do, and take turns to enact what’s written on the piece of paper.

6. Play drunk

Playing drunk can be a really sexy game to play with your boyfriend, especially if both of you like drunk sex. Pretend like you’re drunk and wasted, and tell your partner to imagine if he was somewhere else and walked into you *he doesn’t know you in this fantasy*.

Ask him to do anything to you and pretend like both of you are complete strangers. You can either have your eyes closed the whole while or not – the choice is yours. [Read: 19 foreplay sex games for couples to get naughty and horny in seconds!]

7. Massage or body paint

Give your boyfriend a happy ending massage. It’s easy and a sexy game that can bring his fantasies to life. Or slather a bit of lotion or massage oil on him and move your hands all over him.

On the other hand, take your clothes off and give your boyfriend a few edible body paints or watercolors and ask him to use your body as a canvas. It’ll always be fun, and the sex in the shower that follows will be just as fun too! [Read: What happens in a happy ending massage?]

8. Read aloud from an erotic book and play the characters

Pick out your favorite erotic novel or collection of short stories and read out to each other, taking turns to play the lead characters.

And each time one of you has to read out an erotic passage that involves touching or fondling body parts, read the action, and do the exact same thing on your partner’s body.

9. Sex toy

Dress your boyfriend up as a sex doll, and don’t forget the makeup! He may be confused at first, but if both of you have some time on your hands, this would definitely be fun.

Oh, and of course, don’t forget to have sex with him. After all, he is a sex toy! [Read: How to dress for sex – Secrets to arouse your man and look way sexier]

10. Spell out words on the body

This is a fun game to play with your boyfriend that can be hilarious and sexy too. Get him to lie down naked on his stomach. Spell out words on his back and ask him to recognize them. As he gets better at recognizing it, scribble faster so it becomes tougher for him.

For each right answer he gets, you get to kiss him wherever he wants you to. For each wrong answer, you get to smack his butt or spank him with a stick. Switch roles now and then and you’ll see just how funny and sexy this game can be.

11. Naked twister

Surely we don’t need to explain his one? Basically, you play the board game, but you do it naked and as you get closer and more tangled up, the sexier it becomes! [Read: The best dirty, sexy texting games to get naughty with one text]

12. Sexy truth or dare

Truth or date is a classic game and yes, you can use it as one of the games to play with your boyfriend in a regular setting, but you can also add some serious sexiness to it too.

Make sure that you’re alone, nobody is going to disturb you, and get down to business. You each take it in turns to ask the question “truth or dare,” and you choose accordingly.

Questions have to be super-sexy and dares have to follow suit. The only real question is how long you’ll keep playing before you abandon the game and just go at it!

So, which game will you play first?

[Read: The wildest drinking games for naughty guys and girls looking to get crazy!]

Just use any of these sexy and non-sexy games to play with your boyfriend and you’ll definitely have a really fun and memorable time together.

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